I'm currently in a relationship. We are both polyamorous (see my journal for a definition of polyamorous), which means I'm free to date, have fun, even fall in love. However, if you are looking for the "one and only", I'm not the one for you, I'm already married.

If you are looking for someone to spend time and have fun with.. casual or even to see where things go.. great. I know I can care and even love more than one person and there's always room for more friends. I do have time in my life to spend with someone else.

I'm not hiding anything or "cheating". He's on this site as well and he knows that I'm here. We are both fine with it. :) We have been poly, since we first started dating, 20 years ago. This works well for both of us. I believe you have to be honest and respectful in all relationships. I value my friends and those that I love very much. I'm not into drama or head games. I like the people around me to be happy.

I have a good sense of humor and I love to laugh and have fun. I'm curious about lots of things and I love learning new or different things. If you want to know something about me, just ask.

A new friend has commented that "he thinks I'm delicious and tempting". I told him I was working on my profile and he said I should add this comment. :)

Working hard. Trying to have as much fun and enjoyment in life, as I possibly can. Life is too short and we should enjoy it.

lots of things. I'm stubborn, so once I set my mind to something, I keep working at it, until I figure it out. I grew up playing a number of sports. I love playing games (not mind ones) and doing craft-type stuff.

I have no idea. Likely my hair when it's down. It's long and almost reaches the top of my bottom. When I wear it loose, I always get lots of compliments. People seem to like the length, the natural wave and the thickness. :)

I've been told that my eyes are beautiful. My eyes change color, depending on my mood and sometimes due to what I'm wearing. Usually some mixture of green and brown.

I'll leave it to other people to describe me, further.

I love books. I love to read. Yes, I will read a cereal box if I have nothing else. I love sci-fi/fantasy and mysteries. I tend to have favorite authors and I will read their books over and over, again. I'm constantly looking for more authors to add to my favorites. I like Laurell Hamiliton, Mercedes Lackey, Anne McCaffrey, Marion Zimmer Bradley,Patricia Cornwell, Dorothy Gilman, and Hamilton Crane. Just to name a few.

Movies. I tend to prefer action, comedies and sci-fi. I do not like horror or gory movies. I will watch horror, if there's a point other than gore. Drama is fine. I really liked Grosse Point Blank; the lethal weapon movies, Serenity, Galaxy Quest, The Blues Brothers, Big Trouble, Bull Durham, Cool runnings, Uncle Buck, Blood of Heroes, X-men, Battlestar Galactica ,etc..

Music. I tend to love the 80's music that I grew up with, but I have varied tastes. So, everything from rock, heavy metal, to every once in a while, a country song.. is good. I like specific songs/artists and groups more than a type of music. I don't like most rap or classical music, but there are good exceptions.

Food. If you are really curious, contact me and ask. No vegetarian here.. give me hamburgers, steak, pepperoni pizza, etc any day of the week. I save being adventurous for stuff other than food. ;)

my computer
books
games/sports to play .. I'm competitive, what can I say?
my family (includes my dogs)
my friends
learning and/or trying new things

Things that I would like to try. What do I need to work on? Places I want to visit. I also think about how I can improve things (work and at home, etc). I also like to think of fun things to do.

Either taking a trip out of town, going out with friends.. or having friends over to the house. Friday tends to be pizza night, in some fashion.

I've also been known to head out of town to hit an SCA event (medieval group), depends on the weekend.

I used to love watching Perry Mason. I'm seriously thinking of seeing I can find that series on DVD. Sometimes, I wonder if I'm the only one who watched that show.

If you want to talk. If you have any questions, if you are curious, if you want to have fun, etc. :)

I would love to make some new friends. Someone that I could hang out and go do stuff with them. I'm also looking for someone to go walking or hiking with.. and perhaps a gym partner. I want to get in better shape and increase my strength for medieval fighting. :) I'm competitive, so I wouldn't mind finding someone I could do sports with. I do love a good challenge.

If you are looking for a friend and do any of the above, contact me. I'm open to other possibilities, too. Although, I do really miss having a friend to work out with.

Really, I would prefer friendship, as a foundation for any relationship.