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22 F San Diego, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 15
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am a Michigan transplant living in southern California. My daily life is that of mom but I have a wonderfully intriguing life outside of that. I am passionate, adventurous, imaginative, and curious about all the world has to offer me. Though I also am a homebody and really enjoy being around friends and family.

I enjoy learning and growing and exploring. I adore interesting conversation and am excited by the prospect of being challenged and engaged.

I also am a huge fan of ambiguity! ;)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am currently a student midwife in my second year of school. Before this I was at a traditional university studying women and gender. I loved every minute of it but have truly found what I am passionate about and how I want to apply my drive to better people's lives.

I am also a mom to two young beautiful girls. They make my life an eventful balancing act and teach me everyday how to be my best self.

And finally I am married.We consider ourselves poly. We are just starting to explore this side of ourselves so what that means to us is still being defined.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making soup.
Finding really good obscure movies - though it was much easier to do when renting movies meant going to an actually store. RIP Blockbuster.
Telling stories.

Also I have an amazing memory. I can remember what I was wearing down to the undergarments during my first kiss at 12 years old.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I talk very fast and when I get excited I get faster and sometimes louder. If people meet me at the right time that is probably the first thing they would notice. I also tend to dominate conversations if allowed to.

And if I am into you I will probably smile and giggle like an idiot. I have a pretty nice smile, so you would notice that too.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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All of this is almost constantly changing. Though coincidentally this section is the only one that has stayed the same since I started would be much to tedious to keep up with the edits.

I read way less than I should/want to. This wasn't always the case, I used to devoured books and consistently had my nose in a book. So favorites from the past - Harry Potter, Middlesex, In Cold Blood, The Bell Jar, Baby Catcher, Grimm Fairy Tales. All of Dr. SEUSS.

I have staples - I love Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings and Star Wars, The Dark Knight Series - but give me a great foreign film with subtitles and a slow, sad, and thought provoking plot and I will be hooked. Also Frozen is my jam!

I will watch most anything on television and long as it isn't exploitative (I am looking at you Here Comes Honey Boo Boo and Toddlers in Tiaras). I love cooking shows and dramas and well written comedies (HIMYM) and political satire. Currently watching Buffy the Vampire Slayer on Netflix.

I grew up on country music and it will always have my heart, but my music tastes change as I get exposed to new things.

I love good food. I will try anything once. I love to cook and experiment. And I love feeding people.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good food
People to talk to
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Coordinating schedules - but I guess that isn't interesting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I misspelled curiosity in my username and it took me months to realize it. Also the user with the appropriate spelling is apparently a 62 year old woman from Alameda...the more you know.
You should message me if
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If you enjoy conversation, good, creative, thoughtful conversation.

If you are passionate about something and just aching to tell someone about it.

If you like asking people random questions. Hell the most fun I have on here is answering the random ass questions.

If you like telling stories.

If you need a killer soup recipe. I have many.

If you are unashamed of loving brussel sprouts.

I usually message people that interest me, I am not a girl sitting behind her computer waiting to be engaged. Because of that I am probably not going to respond to anything less than a decently composed sentence. <3