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50 F Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:31pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Working on med school
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Just moved to Culver City in May. Need a tour guide! Farmers market, anyone?

If you are a spiritual smartie pants who loves music and animals, we will probably get along just fine... :0) It also helps if you don't mind me rattling on about cool medical stuff I'm learning...

I'm also a musician / songwriter / singer / pianist / poet. I have a BA in comparative literature, music and French. Also have asociate degrees in biology and chemistry from three years of med school prerequisites. I've been a writer, editor, and a teacher. I've been marketing director of a TV network. I have been CEO of my own music company, where I produced over 200 music events.. Now applying to PA school so I can practice medicine. I enjoy a new challenge. I love to travel; been to around 16 different countries and have many travel stories to tell!

I love to laugh and learn and discover new things...very curiosity driven. My most recent nickname is "MacGyver" because I find innovative ways to solve problems. I love to cook without a recipe.

I am back with renewed faith, optimism, and an open heart! Me in a nutshell: Paris, not Vegas. Tulips, not roses. Hugs, not drugs. Hardwoods, not rugs. Poetry, not punctuation. Real, not faux. Less, not more. Cooking, not looking. Purr, not fur. Kindness, not blindness. Quiet, not riot. Thinker, not drinker. Artsy, not ???

I am a snuggleholic who is looking for the right man to pamper. My massages cure headaches. I have the brain of a nerd and the heart of an artist. I am intensely curious and like to try new things. I make up my own recipes (sometimes to rave reviews, sometimes not.) If I could be any famous person, I'd be Santa Claus.

I buy products not tested on animals. I give to the ASPCA, whose founder said: the measure of any society is characterized by that society's treatment of the defenseless. I adore all animals and volunteered for an animal rescue org for a couple of years. My match MUST love animals! I am exploring veganism; I need training! The stuff I've tried so far is fabulous. I can recommend a great vegan restaurant for those who are interested....

I listen to KCRW ("This American Life," "The Moth," "Ted talks" and Joe Frank are my favorites, along with discovering new music.) Parents, cats, kids, and dogs like me. I was the reverend at my gay friends' wedding. I recycle. I love fall leaves. I was born on Halloween. My Texas accent trots out when I've had half a glass of wine.

I love music, art and theater. I'm a classically trained pianist turned songwriter. I have a CD of original music that I call "spoken word beatnik trip hop." Music soothes my soul and I cannot imagine life without it. Hope you love it too. I love writing songs and poetry. I am always excited about discovering new latest is Azam Ali and Ron Pope. Love Angelique Kidjo, Etta James, Kate Bush, Joni Mitchell, jazz standards, art rock, classical, indies, and lots of people you've never heard of...

I have a sincere desire to help people. I am really enjoying learning about how the human body works. I am also learning a lot about myself. I strive for self-actualization and am very compassionate.

I am "low maintenance" and very anti-drama. I have a lot of love to give and I hope I find you soon!

I, in fact, don't want to "relationshop"; I actually want to get da heck off this site ASAP once I find Mr. Sparky creative intellectual nerd-word sexy-motivated music-loving man. I am a very passionate person! We will bring out the best in each other and make each other smile. You are emotionally available and you want a long-term relationship. Is that too much to ask? (P.S. I don't respond to profiles without photos...sorry.)
What I’m doing with my life
Pursuing physician assistant school, taking classes, looking for externships, doing events at a local college, writing poetry, smiling, driving, dreaming, ass-kicking, climbing up Maslow's hierarchy...
I’m really good at
The best thing about me is compassion...
The worst thing about me is procrastination...LOL
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Way too many books to list. I was an English major and creative sci fi writing teacher...Big "Confederacy of Dunces" fan.

Way too much music to list. The list is always changing anyway! I'm a huge Pandora fan. My stations include Afro Celt Sound System, Brazilian Funk, Cello, Frenchie Radio, Eddie Izzard, Thievery Corporation, Adele, Jack Johnson, Van Morrison...and I'm a piano player who likes to noodle out my own songs...

Also love to cook, love to try new ethnic foods (mostly vegetarian). Love Indian and Thai food.

Not a big fan of TV -- I don't have cable -- but I have to admit I loved "Breaking Bad" and "House." Okay, I will also admit that I love sci fi, and am currently watching Battlestar Gallactica on NetFlix. Like indie and foreign films much more than American. Also love old films, where dialog was king and special effects were an afterthought. Love Cohen Bros.
The six things I could never do without
constant learning
dark chocolate
I spend a lot of time thinking about
"Ask not the meaning of life; rather, ask what do I want my life to mean?" -- me
On a typical Friday night I am
Being an anomaly.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I wish I was less introverted. I live in my head sometimes. The good news is that I'm never bored. LOL A happy happening extrovert would be good for me.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 43–56
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're striving for self-actualization. And you are curious and kind...and the idea of love doesn't make you barf.

You actually read my profile and think we have something in common. No potheads or alcoholics, please.

And youngsters, quit emailing me for casual sex. Ain't gonna happen. Mrs. Robinson does not live here. If you are under 40, I'm probably not interested.

As an avid fan of testing a theory, I'm going to put a code word in here and ask you to use it if you email me -- this will show me that you read my profile...haha! And the word is: kismet.