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27 Livonia, MI Woman


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  • Ages 24-32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 23
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 2" (1.57m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So here are some adjectives I associate with myself:
-open-minded (or at least I try)
-talented ;) (but much more in the world of things than the world of people)
-indecisive. it gets bad sometimes. No, I don't have a particular restaurant in mind.
-different/ too unique. I kind of feel like if the world is full of red, yellow, and blue people, I'm orange. It's not that my qualities don't exist elsewhere, it's just that my combination of them doesn't seem to be very common.
-determined, not all the time.
-I'm pretty even-keeled. I'm not often super passionate or obsessive, nor am I super chill.
-Things I've been at various points in my life: a perfectionist; that quiet girl; someone who appreciates hard work. Don't get me wrong, applying yourself is pretty good. But (and this is close to universal) I'm pretty happy not staying up til 2 am all the time doing homework.

I like big picture discussions and talking about things abstractly, but I also can really appreciate details. I like being serious but also being silly. I'm not nerdy, but I think I'm similar to people who are. I increasingly like conceptualizing the world as a lot of people who are all in it together rather than a lot of isolated individuals (from that you can guess that I'm not a republican). I take an aerial class (see photos) and I Irish dance once a week. Occasionally I do random craft projects, including modern origami.

Categorical personality descriptions:
-Myers Briggs: INTJ (introvert, theoretical, thinking more than feeling, tendency to categorize and orient)
-Elements: earth, but sometimes fire pokes through (see: red hair)
-True Colors: green and gold (liking science and order, and simultaneously breaking and following the rules) (this is from middle school, but whatever. it's still true)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Physically controlling my body, but not when it comes to other objects (ie good at dance and bad at any sport that involves a ball). Also listening, understanding, drawing, and carrying on pleasant conversation apparently.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People think I'm nice and cute. This gets old real quick. I also get 'mysterious' - which is probably just a combination of being introverted, and being hard to 'get' - my theory is I'm just a weird combination of things, so when people try to guess at how I work they aren't very good at it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Examples and favorite genres in each of the categories, although I prefer things that don't fit well into genres:

books: historical/cultural fiction, of an intermediate literary level - I want it to be engaging and easy to read, but also thought provoking. Examples are The Last Samurai [it's not about samurai], The Brief Wonderous Life of Oscar Wao, The God of Small Things, Shantaram, The Cheese Monkeys and the sequel, the authors Margaret Atwood and Haruki Murakami.

movies: indie but not artsy - different, but not for the sake of being different, nor overly emotional (just like me!). The Fall is my favorite (movie, incidentally it's also my favorite season).

shows: comedy/sitcom, sometimes food network

music: alternative - containing a lot of energy, musical talent/creativity, beauty, ability to create a mood I like, catchiness (pick several). Top bands include the Shins, the Strokes, and Phoenix.

food: ethnic, with a lot of vegetables!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
mental stimulation
truth and understanding
a shoulder to cry on
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
everything. Understanding the world, understanding myself. I like thinking, and I like interesting things to think about - feel free to message me an interesting question or a philosophical point, or anything else you think I'll think is good to think about.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home. Let's be honest, I'm kind of lame. But I'm down for some good food or drinks or a movie.
You should message me if
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you like this comic:

Also sorry if I don't message you back. Relationship-worthy pairs of people are pretty rare, I think.