I'm a petite, very fair skinned, blue-eyed female-type person of a
geezer age, but still full of it, spark, I mean. I'm still curvy
and told I'm cute for my age, hence the moniker. I'm a
psychotherapist and a paper artist and I also do intuitive
readings. I am smart, silly and serious, politically aware and a
liberal, know that baggage is part of life for most of us but have
worked mine to death, well, almost. I love to garden, I hike a lot,
am a voracious reader mostly of contemporary fiction and some
things related to my work and my spiritual interests. I love the
arts and am passionate about color, I love to wear it, play with
it, be surrounded by it. I also love to bake (gluten-free) (I'm
good at it!), I have been on a spiritual path for 30 years that
includes meditation and deep personal inquiry. It's an important
part of my life. I try to live a meaningful life based on
joyfulness, openness, honesty, good communication, integrity,
compassion, courage, passion, generosity, service to others and
myself, good common-sense.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm enjoying life every day, practicing being thankful for all I
have. I'm working with people to help them unravel any
emotional/psychological obstacles to being fully actualized.
I'm creating a web presence to build my private practice back up
after the recession did a number on it. I'm hiking in the hills
near where I live in western Mairin County, CA. many times a week.
I'm brushing my wonderful cat every day or suffering the
consequences. I'm planting my spring garden after the unusually
cold winter killed many of my perennials. I'm cutting paper art and
loving every minute of it. I'm spending time with good friends and
I’m really good at
Being a loving, good friend.
Making plants grow, I've a prestigious green thumb
Open, honest communication
The first things people usually notice about me
My pretty white hair and very fair skin
My very big smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite Books, oh there are many. Here are just a few:
Prince of Tides, Pat Conroy
Possession, A. S. Byatt
Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close, Jonathan Safran Foer
The English Patient, Michael Ondaatje
Quiet, The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking
The six things I could never do without
Love and warm human connection
Delicious baked things
A comfortable bed
Books to read
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The Nature of Reality, yes, really.
On a typical Friday night I am
These days I'm either at home with a good book or out with friends
seeing a good film or having dinner or just hanging together.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't know you well enough.
You should message me if
I'd love you to contact me if you are: a good guy, really smart,
really funny/witty, kind, liberal, somewhat introspective, really
like and respect women, affectionate, emotionally and financially
stable, psychologically aware and have done enough work on yourself
that when stuff comes up in the relationship, as it surely will,
you have the self-awareness and understanding to want to work thru
it. You might be on a spiritual path yourself or at least respect
mine. You are good with being with a women close to your own age.
You love to be close and cuddle. You like to converse but also like
quite times when you're alone or with your honey. You're deep
rather than superficial, can relax rather than being type A,
appreciate the ripening that all our years of living have given us.