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36 Los Angeles, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 34–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 9:01pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish
My self-summary
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About me: Pets and small children always seem to find me in a crowd and then want to sit with me...even when I don't let them put their feet in my face. I participate deeply in my communities, but also need time alone to recharge and sort things out. I look young because I use sunscreen, and maybe because my Grandmother lived to be 100. I think my face is pacing itself in case I also live that long.

I am both spiritual AND religious. I joyfully attend a creative, multicultural, social justice-y church every week. Also, for the past few years I've been exploring the contemplative Christian tradition, and practicing centering prayer. I go to church and participate in spiritual communities because they are consistent reminders for me to connect to God and to myself, the self God created me to be. I cherish the wisdom and support of other folks seeking those moments of divine union and seeking to use their gifts to benefit others.

One of my favorite places around here is Griffith park because of the zoo and the observatory and the green space in general. It is like L.A.'s communal back yard. I also like to sit around in nature, especially by a stream in the woods, or at the beach in the evening. I exercise a few days a week to de-stress and stay healthy. I like swimming, riding a bike, and hiking slowly enough to enjoy the scenery. I am not an athlete. Let's not even pretend about that, but I enjoy being active at my own pace.

I'm subtly counter cultural. I make choices for myself that make me feel the most healthy physically, emotionally, and spiritually. I would almost always prefer to have a home-cooked meal over being treated to a meal in a restaurant. I make sure to get enough sleep. I live within my means. I am a committed and reliable friend. I only wear high heels under extreme peer pressure, such as being someone's maid of honor. I don't enjoy social situations involving standing up for hours, small-talk, loud music, late start time, and smoke, or any combination of the above. I would probably agree to go to an event with these non-preferred list items on rare occasions, if you would agree to buy me ice cream, but if the above are your favorite things, we are probably not compatible.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a speech and language therapist in schools. Every day brings a new creative challenge and a new quirky kid moment of the day. I'm so thankful to work in a setting in which the vast majority of people are smiling and laughing, even at 7:45am. My job gives me great benefits and lots of time off. It has also turned me into an early to bed, early to rise gal, whether I like it or not. :)
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I am usually attracted to a kind, considerate, respectful, thoughtful, gentle guy with a rich inner life. He nurtures his spirit and listens for that "still small voice." He has access to his depths and has done some inner work to make friends with his full humanness. He dreams of building a mutually loving, supportive, emotionally safe relationship moving toward partnership and someday a family. He tells good stories. He's interested in getting to know me as a friend and has the maturity to let the progression of physical displays of affection develop slowly. He wants a simple yet comfortable life. He is just the right amount of awkward so that I don't feel shy with him. He knows himself well and likes himself. He is good with a calendar, dependable, and able to plan ahead. He is probably smiling in his profile picture. ;)