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37 Philadelphia, PA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 24
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t want kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am a driven and independent person, who spends more time working than i should. i like yoga, i sew, i like running and rock climbing, i am a scrapbooker (it's the midwesterner in me), i'm trying to learn spanish, i like to travel, and i have a dog that i adore. i am kind and generous and loyal to those who deserve my loyalty.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm enjoying life and trying to learn something new every day. For work, I do research on sexual decision-making, with an eye towards increasing sexual self-awareness and communication. In my tiny bit of spare time (thinking about sex is a lot of work), I'm exploring my new city (philly).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Keeping in touch
talking to strangers (again, it's the midwesterner in me)
Thrift store/stoop sale shopping
The first things people usually notice about me
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my laugh. it's distinctive.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: anything Barbara Kingsolver or John Steinbeck, Modoc, The Art of Racing in the Rain, The Book Thief, The Time Traveler's Wife, How Children Succeed and lots and lots of others. I am a voracious reader of both fiction and non-fiction. I just started reading Sex at Dawn and The Ethical Slut.

Movies: i know all of the words to Dazed and Confused; also love Moulin Rouge, Man on Wire, Big Fish, American Beauty, Shawshank Redemption, and others i can't remember. I enjoy movies but don't watch many of them because i sometimes lack the attention to focus for that long.

Music: too much to name. i love Manu Chao, Mumford & Sons, Avett Brothers, Cesaria Evora, Talking Heads, Pink, Tribe Called Quest, Indigo Girls, Ani DiFranco, Sublime, Johnny Cash, Dolly Parton, First Aid Kit, and so so much more but those choices give a sense of the range.

Food: anything. okay, so not anything, but i love food. i try to limit the amount of meat I eat and, when i do eat meat, i try to be sure that it's organic. i LOVE beer. i'd like to learn how to brew my own.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my friends and family
my dog
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
all of the things i want to learn and do in my life and how i wish there was more time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
meeting up with friends and/or co-workers for happy hour, then headed out to dinner or home to veg after working too much during the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i'm not vanilla...
You should message me if
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you can rock climb with me
you can make me laugh
You are on board with ethical non-monogamy