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35 Emeryville, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:07pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Myer Briggs says I'm an INTJ
Looking for:
1. someone to chill with forever.
2. dorky, nerdy, playful spirit.
1. If you took DNA from pink and the brain and mashed them together, you end up with me!!
2. high achiever with big ambition.
3. Looking for my thunder buddy for life

Hello!! and welcome to my profile. My name is Henry and I, just like almost every person on here, am looking for my one and only. If you've never taken a myer briggs test, I recomend it, its fun and it will give us something to talk about.

So I bet you are wanting to know a little more about me and what i'm looking for, just as I am wanting to know a little more about you. I'm a software engineer/manager who lives in Emeryville and works in Hayward. I do enjoy my job very much, however it isn't the dream. The dream is my own video game studio. I am currently building a title and am on my way to this dream. I get very passionate and excited when talking about all aspects of video games (the competition, the growth of the industry, people habits, etc). I'm a huge nerd lol.

I enjoy deep intellectual conversations as well as goofy ones that have no purpose other than to make each other laugh. I love learning random facts and dream of a woman who will google stuff with me.

In the past, I have been described as Ted Mosby from how i met your mother, sheldon from big bang theory, and ross from friends. A big hopeless romantic who has a giant heart but just doesn't quite get the emotional spectrum of things. I have my proverbial shit together in all things except the matters of the heart, I am serious and responsible as well as goofy and animated. I've also been called a giant dork lol.

Part of being an INTJ is that I think A LOT about everything and anything that comes my way. One of the big things I think about is my future with my special someone. I personally think being an adult is hard, with all the responsibilities of life, and I have a big kid in me that is screaming eff it, lets go play!! So when I think of the perfect life, I think of owning our own business together, with enough income that makes the difficulties of life a non issue. If we want to go on a trip, no need to save money. If we want to have children, they come out prepaid lol. And can't a guy spoil his girl rotten without being judged?

With that said, I'm generally very attracted to smart, independant, entrepreneurial types. Women with can do attitudes who either have their own dreams and goals that I can help play a part in or want to join me in my quest. I'm looking for someone who can get serious about chasing our dreams together, but also be playful with me. The journey is always difficult but doesn't mean we can't laugh along the way right?

Still reading? cool then we should definitely start a conversation. I just want to let you know however, that for anyone who is interested, we will start off as friends. I'm here looking for my life long partner. I think I can only find that we take it slow and explore new things together.
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently working as a software engineer in Hayward. Taking wonderful care of my dog Rupert (nick named poopert). Streaming my game development on twitch to achieve the ultimate dream.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
they say I look like glen from walking dead.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: song of ice and fire, wheel of time, sword of truth series.
Show: breaking bad, dexter, game of thrones, true blood...omg too many to list. Pretty much anything that has a very engaging storyline and has the ability to make you so mad at the end of an episode that you can't wait till the next one
food: everything, in fact I wish everything in the world could be nom nom.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. my computer
2. my bed
3. my roomba
4. my ego-t
5. lunch
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
intj with a heavy on the T. too much too fast to list here. But what you would be interested in, I do think about the kind of relationship I would have with my one and only mystery woman and how unique it will be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With what I do to achieve my goals, fridays i'm either relaxing at home or working. If not those things, then i'm hanging out and doing something chill with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I turn into a pumpkin at midnight

I once got into a fight with a real live bat....and lost.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I am actually extremely humble but, there is no other way to say this without sounding like a douche. It is extremely rare for me to get excited about meeting a girl. I do not impress easily.
I feel I have a lot to offer ONE right person so I don't fall in love easily.

What you should take from this is that you have everything to gain and nothing to lose by messaging me. I will not lead you on and will not try to get into your goodies. I am looking for someone I can trust as my best friend and will tell you the second i feel it.

Oh and ladies....just like you, I hate the "hi" emails.