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My self-summary
I go to work, do art, read, exercise, write, cook, go on hikes, play with kitties and dogs, swim in rivers, go out with friends, organize, go camping, and go back to work.

I'm polyamorous and bisexual. I'm on this site primarily to date women and genderqueer folks... Casually or more serious, depending on what you are looking for :)
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What I’m doing with my life
I work full time as a counselor. When I'm not at work, I do art, like to pretend I'm a writer, and organize workshops, support circles, and other awesome events.
I’m really good at
doing art. struggling with my self esteem. thinking abstractly. deconstructing myself. reading, writing, generally nerding out. doing sexy things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I can be really quiet or really intense, and I laugh very loudly very suddenly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Monkey Wrench Gang, Black Sun, Beloved, Ceremony, Carrie

Scholars Audre Lorde, Kate Bornstein, Anne Fausto Sterling, Michelle Alexander, Angela Davis, Vandana Shiva, Rosalind garland-thompson, Assata Shakur, soooooo many more

Movies: Totoro, The Lion King, Rescuers Down Under, Princess Mononoke, The Lost Boys, Carrie, Jennifer's Body, Teeth, Hard Candy, Jenifer, Moulin Rouge, Sweeney Todd, The Dark Crystal, Nausicaa, Rocky Horror Picture Show, Mirror Mask

Shows: Supernatural, Futurama, Star Trek DS9!!!!

Music: fka twigs, Shpongle, Emancipator, Eoto, Beats Antique, Fiona Apple, Dead Prez, Del, rocky Rivera, Hieroglyphics, erykah badu, Zion I, Pink Floyd, Nirvana, Led Zeppelin, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Tegan and Sara, Santigold, MIA, Justin Timberlake, Gorillaz, Nicki Minaj, Rihanna, Missy Elliot, Lil' Kim

Food: sushi. Strawberries.
The six things I could never do without
1. fuzzy animal friends
2. my daily schedule book
3. fruit smoothies
4. morning showers
5. paper and pen
6. sexual attention
I spend a lot of time thinking about
social justice, systemic oppression, disrupting patriarchy and white supremacy, the meaning of existence, the subjectivity of experience, getting cosmic, how the self is connected to the whole. and sexuality and gender a lot.
On a typical Friday night I am
out dancing with friends
. or at my house doing projects with my cat
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a bisexual, polyamorous, nature worshipping, kink and sex work posi feminist. I'm not rigidly defined politically about I'm social justice oriented, anti capitalist, and all about intersectional feminism. i like reading about anarchism and socialism and communism and the different nuances between. i'm white, cisgender, able bodied, class privileged. i struggle with anxiety and depression. creative expression is my most important method of self care.
You should message me if
You are polyamorous (or non monogamous of any sort)
You are anti racist, anti sexist, anti homophobic, anti transphobic, anti biphobic, anti ableism, anti ageism, anti capitalism, anti imperialism, anti slut shaming, anti kink shaming
You like to go play in the forest when its sunny out