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30 / F / Straight / Single
Her journal posts
Jul 27, 2008
I recently ended a relatively short relationship (but, actually, kind've long for me) and am still sad about him. I am not hung up on him, I just have to work with him, so things at work are going to be tough for a while. I let my guard down with him, and he seemed like he was going to be in my life for a long time. Now, we're trying the "just friends" routine. Does it really work for anyone? I mean, someone like him: narcissistic, shallow, immature, superficial..maybe. But I don't have such "on-the-surface" relationships. I have CLOSE friends, who I respect and am respected by, who I know much about. I don't think I can include this man in that...so does the friend thing ever really work, I wonder?
I think I need to focus my energy on just finding a "real man". Someone who's a doer, not just a sayer. Where are these men? I've yet to find someone...but I'm still looking!