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cuteyteacher
30 / F / Straight / Single
Spring, Texas
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Who gets to decide?
Jul 28, 2008
Okay, I'm looking at my profile tonight, after last night's long
evening of question answering, and I notice that the profile
"awards" bestowed upon me are not what I thought they would be. It
seems that my answers have created a false image of who I
"am"...for instance, I am labeled as "More Republican". This is
hilarious. I'm a non-Christian, pro-choice, pro-gay, non-virgin. I
am anti-Iraq war and would be a draft dodger if necessary, and I
think that it's perfectly acceptable to burn the American flag.
What's Republican about that? I am almost insulted by the
label!
Also, the powers that be have deemed I am "More Organized" as well as "More Greedy". I am the most scatterbrained, ill-organized, chaotic people you might meet. My classroom looks like a papermill exploded in it most days and my poor apartment is the victim of my own tornado.
Plus, one of the only personal attributes to which I can certainly and readily admit is my nurturing, people pleasing, generosity. I surround myself with more self-serving people (not a bad thing, but they have severely high expectations of others), while I am the one who forgives, the one who will buy dinner just because, the one who will give you my last dollar if it'll make you happier/more comfortable.
I am not bragging about myself on that account, it's just that I KNOW that one quality exists in me, as it's caused me lots of discomfort in this life. I often find myself being taken advantage of or spread too thin. Greed is most certainly not an issue for me.
So, if you're reading this, I hope that you question the criteria on which these "awards" are based. Don't look at someone's profile and take those labels at face value, either. I am hoping Mr. Right chooses to ignore/overlook my faulty, mislabeled personality awards...because a guy who likes that I'm more conservative, more organized and more greedy will be sorely disappointed when/if he meets me.
Jeez, I'm disappointed to "meet me" everytime I check out my own profile...seems I'm misrepresented by it. :(
Also, the powers that be have deemed I am "More Organized" as well as "More Greedy". I am the most scatterbrained, ill-organized, chaotic people you might meet. My classroom looks like a papermill exploded in it most days and my poor apartment is the victim of my own tornado.
Plus, one of the only personal attributes to which I can certainly and readily admit is my nurturing, people pleasing, generosity. I surround myself with more self-serving people (not a bad thing, but they have severely high expectations of others), while I am the one who forgives, the one who will buy dinner just because, the one who will give you my last dollar if it'll make you happier/more comfortable.
I am not bragging about myself on that account, it's just that I KNOW that one quality exists in me, as it's caused me lots of discomfort in this life. I often find myself being taken advantage of or spread too thin. Greed is most certainly not an issue for me.
So, if you're reading this, I hope that you question the criteria on which these "awards" are based. Don't look at someone's profile and take those labels at face value, either. I am hoping Mr. Right chooses to ignore/overlook my faulty, mislabeled personality awards...because a guy who likes that I'm more conservative, more organized and more greedy will be sorely disappointed when/if he meets me.
Jeez, I'm disappointed to "meet me" everytime I check out my own profile...seems I'm misrepresented by it. :(
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