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31 M Lincoln, NE

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:09pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any

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My self-summary
DISCLAIMER -- Below are some facts about me. If you think that they are good things, then you might want to date me. Otherwise, you don't. I know myself pretty well.

I am open to a broad spectrum of relationship types:
- I feel that people are entitled to design the relationship dynamic that works well for them, and have no obligation to fit within (or to avoid) the conventions of dating. When defining the relationship, scratch paper may be used but textbooks are discouraged.
- I don't experience romantic jealousy. It does not bother me if my partner dates or sleeps with others.
- I'm down with being cuddle buddies. In fact, my screen name was chosen because of this (and, of course, to honor that worthy mollusk, the cuttlefish).
- I'm down with being "just" friends. (I have been accused of putting female friends in "the friend zone". Not really sure what that means.)

I have some emotional/intellectual oddities that some people like and some people don't:
- My favorite thing is learning. I will take you on a date to the library. I think it's hot if you offer to read a book aloud to me.
- I'm bad at remembering things like what day it is or where I parked. If you say, hey, everyone is bad that those things: you'll find that I'm worse.
- I work as a computer programmer even though I didn't go to school for it. I tend to like to do things that I'm not qualified for.
- Communication is really important to me. I often discuss personal matters in such frank yet abstract terms that people get concerned.

I imagine I am I actually test as
Kinsey 4 Kinsey 1.5
Ravenclaw Huffelpuff
What I’m doing with my life
You and I live in a turning point in the history of humanity. We may be on the brink of eliminating poverty worldwide. We may be on the brink of destroying the Earth's ecosystems. We are unintentionally creating a world-wide society out of our planet's many societies, and we collectively have to decide what its values and aspirations will be. I'm excited and terrified to be a part of it. I do my best to help.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm a connoisseur of break-up songs.
The six things I could never do without
- Open windos.
- Puffy chairs.
- A passport.
- Water that freezes into a crystalline form that is less dense than its liquid form.
- It would be nice if I could get a really spectacular headdress to wear on special occasions, so grand and shiny that people wouldn't notice that I am otherwise nearly naked, and yet not relying upon appropriation of some specific culture's headdress-making traditions.
- Free continental breakfast.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Ethics. Mathematical realism, formalism, and platonism. Algorithms. Compassion. Cognitive biases. The best way to articulate an emotion.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–36
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are collecting boys from all 50 states and are missing one from Nebraska.