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28 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 28
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats

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My self-summary
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OK so all of the below has now already happened, but feel free to read anyway.

Whoa! I'm suddenly a film maker! After spending a frustrating career in theatre - mostly due to vocal injury - I found myself planning an incredible road trip for this fall. But it's just kept snowballing, and now we're doing a full fledged documentary. 5,000 miles. Four Guys. One Tent. No Smartphones.

I'm stupidly excited about it. The idea is to 1) see how cheaply we can cross the country without missing any of the amazing experiences along the way (yes that means three weeks of camping), and 2) to inspire a generation that won't have adventures unless we actively seek them out. We're stuck at desks, or staring at our mobile phones, or watching tv, or playing video games... All while adventure is waiting for us right in your back yard. I'm done with it. I'm ready to throw up my arms, throw caution to the wind, and just... GO.
What I’m doing with my life
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Besides the above...

Have a gig singing the music of Frankie Valli & The Four Seasons on cruise ships around the world. Pretty nifty. I'll still be in the city - but now I get paid vacations whenever I want! Not too bad. Oh, and if you're lucky, you can come with me on the cheap. How's that for a perk?

I'm an actor/singer in the city, really into fitness and health, passionate about nutrition, and I love to go sailing, rock climbing, hiking... I like to keep things eclectic and adventurous. :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being weird (Definitely a closet nerd). Also singing. Also cooking. I make some mean, healthy fried chicken.

Yes. I just said healthy fried chicken. It's a thing. And it's delicious.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Superficially I'm not the tallest guy in the world, but I've been told my eyes make up for it.

Otherwise, probably how passionate I get about things I care about.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Alchemist, Lord of the Rings, Ender's Game series, Game of Thrones up through book three, see a pattern? The Things They Carried, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy.

Movies/TV: Beasts of the Southern Wild, Moonrise Kingdom, Life of Pi, Battlestar Galactica, Star Trek, Lost, Jericho, Dr. Who, Stranger than Fiction, Mel Brooks movies, Big Fish, Princess Bride, Love Actually, Moulin Rouge, LOTR, Star Wars duh. Many, many more.

Sadly I really love country music. But fortunately I also like most other music too.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(In no particular order)

1. My two cats who are the coolest. Cats. Ever. (like one of them plays fetch. And I didn't even teach him to do it.)
2. My music/singing
3. My health
4. My family and friends
5. Baseball
6. Being outside

7. Yoga pants. Yours. Not mine. Lord have mercy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
More and more it's how narcissistic it really is to be an actor, and whether or not I'd be better spent doing things that actually - you know - mattered in the grand scheme of things.

Also some day owning a ranch.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends, but I'm really not all that wild anymore at my advanced age. Netflix, editing, bar with friends, these are all possibilities.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I recently learned that cutting jalapenos and then touching your... nether regions... makes for the worst 20 minutes of your life.
You should message me if
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Life's too short to wait for someone else to take charge of your destiny. If you're interested, shoot me a message!