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36 Reston, VA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 20–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Nov 26
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
“In a moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing to do, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.”
 Theodore Roosevelt

I occasionally host a Friday night poker game in Reston, moreso in the fall/winter. I'm trying to get people to come try to take my monies. :) And if I bring some cute single boys and get some cute single girls all talking, that's always nice too.

I design web apps and I'm paid to think about what others need and how to lead them to their goal. I work to make our products as logical and helpful as possible, to make the sign posts clear and easy to read, to make a user's little necessary paths and tasks easier, faster and optimally fun.

I like psychology, logic and how that ties in to feelings; peoples' actions, yet I really appreciate a scientific, organized mind that stores trivia. I deeply appreciate someone who is curious about the world and can teach me what they know without making me feel like a jackass for not knowing it already. :)

I love people in general, I love all of my friends, but just a sparkling few really impress me with their humor, patience, intelligence, open mindedness.

I am occasionally bouncy, but can also be bookish and quiet. I find many small things delightful; the right flavor combinations; slightly hot food accompanied by pepsi or coke, the right mixture of gelato, mojito gelato (sorbet really) by itself is delicious.

Just like most people, I like watching stars fall, the sound of cicadas or tiny frogs chirping on summer nights. I enjoy feeling the responsiveness of my car on the pavement, while cruising home on the toll road; relaxed and breathing deeply with the windows open, sometimes catching pockets of cool floral scented trees.

Also like most people, I love the sound of my name spoken with joyful ebullience.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Lately, reading when not working. When not reading, working on my house, working on animation homework I'm also helping to staff a local animation convention and am spending a lot of time writing emails/coordinating with people.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Organizing things, then later, not putting the things I use away. It's a constant battle.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm usually pretty cutting to people online. Think House and make him cute and less gimpy and you've got me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
ghandi, dr. cox from scrubs, seriously, I have problems coordinating the two, do no harm, but then verbally tear people a new one for being jackasses.

things to do:
katsucon, juggling, watching people play video games, or just playing video games, drawing, reading, telling stories with muppet-like voice enhancements, house hunting

legend of korra the nick almost human kill la kill blacklist justified archer game of thrones, pushing daisies, arrested development, anything eddie izzard, american dad, chuck, The Colbert Report, The Daily Show, dexter - such a dissapointing end, flight of the concords, family guy, firefly, fushigi yuugi, futurama, gilmore girls, How I Met Your Mother, invader zim, it's always sunny in philadelphia, kim possible, samurai jack, scrubs, stargate universe, sealab 2021, veggie tales, teen titans, wonderfalls, what not to wear

pacific rim red scott pilgrim vs the world anything wes anderson anything coen brothers anything joss whedon coffee town anchorman, boondock saints, boondock saints 2, elling, evangelion, fargo, fight club, gross pointe blank, Hangover, harry potter, how to train your dragon 1 & 2, hudsucker proxy, kickass, kill bill, kung fu hustle, millers crossing, night watch, nurse betty, oscar and lucinda,, raising arizona, real genius, rushmore, the life aquatic with steve zissou, saving silverman, snatch, spy game, spaceballs, wonderboys

wes anderson, joss whedon, jean-pierre jeunet, luc besson, jason reitman, Hayao Miyazaki, matt groening, joss whedon, wachowski brothers,

frank lloyd wright (natch)

Augusten Burroughs, david sedaris, jane austen (totes), l.m. montgomery, orson scott card,

web comics:
phil & kaja foglio, girl genius questionable content xkcd

music I enjoy but not exclusively (I list it here so I don't have to remember so don't ask me to name this list in person because I'll just glare at you):
Abba, Tegan And Sara, Royksopp, Gotan Project, Joshua Radin, Iron & Wine, Benjamin Gibbard, The Postal Service, Tenacious D, System Of A Down, Melody Gardot, Bowling For Soup, The Cure, Radiohead, Andy Votel, Badly Drawn Boy, Eiffel 65, George Harrison, Benny Benassi, They Might Be Giants, Rufus Wainwright, The Shins, Belle & Sebastian, Elliott Smith, The Strokes, The Chemical Brothers, Sigur Ros, Annie, Bjork, Imogen Heap, Frou Frou, Feist, Brazilian Girls, The Kinks, Neil Young, Paul McCartney, The Beatles, Peter Bjorn And John, Beck, Rachael Yamagata, Regina Spektor, Bloc Party, Death Cab For Cutie, Tiesto, Sinatra, System Syn, Decoded Feedback, Nine Inch Nails, The Kooks, Broken Social Scene, Arctic Monkeys, Thievery Corporation
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
mildly witty to outright hilarious conversation; without that we're all boned really.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the future.

I also think about architecture, design, poker, real estate, shows or movies I enjoy, songs that just get stuck in my head, work, friends, and what would make a good movie and environmental issues; which of course are everyone's issues.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
going out to yet another friend's awesome birthday party, looking at my phone, expecting a text from someone who'd rather hang out and quietly couch & web surf & cuddle with me instead.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am the worst kind of romantic, the hopeful kind.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you'd like to be a friend, that's cool, just know that I don't have sex with friends. (Have you used OKCupid's little IM tool? Do it! it's fun to say hi!)

if you are looking for a sex-only thing I'll verbally punch you in the balls, but not if you ask for it like a smug masochist.