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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 39–65
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Post grad
Has kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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BLUF (Bottom Line Up Front): Reasonably Attractive, Fit, Fun, Sane, Financially Secure Professional seeks same (different gender please) for Great Times, Fun, Excitement, Passion, Smelling the Sea and/or Mountain Air, Meals, Movies and get the idea, Yes?

Before I get started on the about me stuff, let me ask you invisible browsers (you know who you are) to turn off invisible browsing if you are interested. If you don't, I will never know you stopped by.

I think that I am a very easy going guy. I am comfortable in the 4 B's (Blue Jeans, Black Tie (well maybe just a little uncomfortable), Bathing Suit and Bathrobe (really comfortable in this)).

I can pass the 3 most important tests that any girl could ever ask:

1. I don't live with my mother.
2. I have a pretty decent job.
3. I am not married.

Apparently my test is getting mixed person said they were insulted, but most take it as be funny.

I consider myself pretty well rounded, and can chat a little bit about most topics. I am a bit stronger on the math and science side, but that doesn't mean that I can't appreciate the softer things, especially if I have a great teacher.

In the interest of full disclosure, I should mention that I identify as conservative, but it isn't so much about the social issues that you ladies are so passionate about. I tend to think the government has enough money, and should learn how to spend it better. I really hate sending them enough money to pay cash for a pretty decent car every year. I really like discussing and debating politics, and feel like I have been fortunate to have spent several years in DC to see what really happens. Please share your opinions with me!

Let's just chat, go out and see if we hit it off. From there, who knows...
What I’m doing with my life
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Lining up multiple streams of income so that I can retire in 3-5 years with the same standard of living. It is looking good. I just have to get the kiddos off the payroll. Working to live, but certainly not living to work. I made that decision several years back, and am very happy with it. I enjoy doing things, and seeing my children(22/19)) growing and beginning to venture out on their own.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Math, riding my bike, surfing the internet and reading lots of Yahoo news stories. Making you happy ;-)

Attracting Catfish who give me their phone number with the first message and have their account deleted within minutes. I must be using the wrong bait!?
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have been told my eyes, my smile, my monster quads (not really, but if I was wishing...) and my butt. Yes, definitely my butt...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies, shows and books are always changing. I have just started reading Super Crunchers by Professor Ian Ayers. I am also rereading The Rickover Effect. Other recent reads are: Steve Jobs, The Lost Symbol, Getting Back to Even, Bringing Down the House and of course Fifty Shades of Grey (I had to see what all the fuss was about)...very poor editing by the way.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Son/Daughter (22/19)
Hot showers
My bike(s), yes there is always room for more. Scratch the s...gave away one bike to a deserving young lad. Now, I definitely need a new one.
Coffee in the morning
The internet and my airbook/phone (so I can find my way around this crazy place)
Yes, that too...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why girls in their 40's can't seem to sleep at night... Not that I am complaining ;)

Why you would have a profile picture that was taken in a public restroom...or any restroom? This is like the Guy topless shots that you girls always say you don't care for.

What your username means.

What age range I should specify that I am looking for. I use 40-65, but 40-60 is probably a better range. I don't want to leave anyone out though ;)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
You never know where I might be... happy hours, movies, dinner, watching Spartacus (except it is over now), going to bed way too early so I can get up and ride the bike. Unfortunately of late, hitting the tarmac in the ATL after a week of business travel.

Note: Game of Thrones is on Sunday night.
5/25: Wow! I didn't see that coming Cersei!
6/7: Stannis is officially on my shit list.
6/14: Really? Jon Snow...I am considering giving up on the series. Tyrion better not die.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't send a ton of messages to a bunch of girls hoping to get a bite. I am told most of you get 50+ messages a day. That sounds exhausting. If you want me to write, let me know by viewing me a few times, liking me or messaging...then I will more than likely write you. I am not afraid to make a first move. I just don't see how you ladies can possibly keep us all sorted out.

If you have ink on your boob, we are not a match...anywhere else is fine. The boob is sacred! I know...this is is just me.

Sometimes I check out the girls who like girls section just to see what I might be missing out on. ;-)

My social and mother's maiden name will remain private.
You should message me if
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You don't care for me, but have a great friend that might. You think I should just give up on this whole online experiment.

Your name is Blythe Danner. Gwyneth, please tell your mother to write.

You are a liberal...yes you read that right. Conservatives are always welcome.

You are a brainiac, rocket scientist, nuclear scientist, doctor, lawyer, etc. I like smart girls. I like to be challenged.

You are a member of the Tribe. I am not, but I seem to hit it off with girls that are.

You want to go ride bikes, or have a drink, or eat a meal, or you think I might be a little cute (especially this one), to tell me what color my dot is. You can also message me just to say hi. I like getting mail just like you do. You should definitely message me if you are one of those naturally cute girls and/or you wear glasses or a ponytail and especially if you can pull off the naughty librarian look. Oh yes, if you have blonde or red hair or blue/green eyes. Let's see what else...maybe a little tummy and a pretty face. I am all over the map when it comes to what appeals to me physically. A good friend once told me that they could just never predict who I might be attracted to.