Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm smart, honest, loving, and sensual.
I enjoy cycling and traveling. I find bicycles sexy, and women who
ride bicycles even sexier.
My life keeps me busy and I don't waste time playing emotional
games. I enjoy real connections with honest, open, and
non-judgmental people. I'm in a committed, sexless, non-monogamous
marriage. I'm looking for a lover who is open and sex positive.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working in a building and playing outside. I'm dad to two wonderful
kids and they are a top priority in my life. I stay in shape by
riding my bike as much as I can, both as a lifestyle choice and for
recreation. I enjoy photography - nature photography, urban scenes,
street life. Photography is one of my creative outlets.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a dad.
Waiting at the top of the hill for my riding partner to catch up.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My blue eyes and reddish beard with tinges of gray. Once they get
past the physical aspects, I think they notice my kindness and
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music - I like a wide variety of music, but not so much into jazz,
electronic, heavy metal, or rap. I like classic (NOT modern)
country in small doses. I love Johnny Cash. I like the rock music I
grew up with in the 70s and 80s.
Food - I like real food - not processed food. I like food that
makes me feel good and food that fuels my mind and body. Although I
enjoy good food, I am not a foodie.
Books - I enjoy thought provoking books about sexuality and
relationships (Sex at Dawn, Mating in Captivity, etc) and other non
fiction books, such as Bicycle Diaries, Unbroken, and The Sixth
Extinction. Currently working on Sapiens, a Brief History of
Humankind... it's really not that brief. I'm a very slow reader,
but I do enjoy reading books that capture me. I also read owner's
Movies/TV/shows - I'm not much into tv and could easily live
without it. I like a movie from time to time, and some favorite
classics include Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, American
Beauty, and Groundhog Day.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Yeah, technically, many of those aren't "things"... and I could
live without contacts and my bike... but I don't want to.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Human relationships, how to make the world a better place, my
family, doing something healthy, and physical contact.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Maybe out taking pictures. Maybe at home hanging out with the
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm an open book once I know you... but until then - I'll just say
that cereal is my comfort food.
You should message me if
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You're looking for a cycling partner along the El
Cerrito/Berkeley/Oakland corridor (a fellow bike commuter would be
way too cool!). You understand that my family will always come
first. Down the road, if there is mutual interest, you'd be
comfortable calling me your lover (or maybe "one of" your lovers).
If you're honest, loving, open, non-judgmental and you want to meet
or talk with a fellow traveler - please contact me. I'm always
looking for a lunch date in downtown Oakland - let's go for a walk
around the Lake or grab a coffee.
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