I am obstinate, sardonic, and foolish.
My Self-Summary
I'll write something insightful and amazing here.
Wait, let me add some more words because apparently that first part
wasn't good enough for okcupid.
I'm mildly ticked because Okcupid branded my intial adjectives as
too common. Then I had to get my thesaurus and do a little
substitution. It makes me sounds kind of pretentious, but at least
it's still accurate.
My username is simply an Indigo Girls reference, although it
doesn't mean anything in particular to me. It is from one of my
favorite songs, but mostly I just think it's a pretty phrase.
What I’m doing with my life
God only knows.
What I'm trying to do with my life: Explore the world (traveling is
always featured on my to do list), find new friends who will put up
with me, go back to school, buy a house at some point. Really
though, I'm just trying to be happy I guess, but that's kind of
vague. I think when it comes down to it, I just want my family
& fun people to be around, and an interesting job.
I’m really good at
If I could figure this out, I'd be set. I know a lot of things I'm
pretty good at, even more things I'm Ok at, but I haven't figured
out the "really good at" part yet.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm quiet. I really wish people would stop telling me that
actually, like I haven't figured it out by the time I'm 24. I'm not
always quiet, but I'm a bit shy around new people and I don't feel
the need to be constantly talking when I'm with someone
(comfortable silences are a good thing).
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Books/Plays: The Demon-Haunted World: Science as a Candle in the
Dark, The Last Temptation of Christ, The History Boys, Monster
Spotter's Guide to North America, The Science of Vampires (no
seriously, I read it every Halloween now), Where the Red Fern
Grows, Manhunt: The 12 Day Search for Lincoln's Killer
Movies: Kiss Kiss Bang Bang, The Shawshank Redemption, My Own
Private Idaho, Wet Hot American Summer, Iron Man, The Godfather (I
& II), Dog Day Afternoon, A Hard Day's Night, Help!, Rebel
Without A Cause, The History Boys
TV: Scrubs, Flight of the Conchords, Deadwood, The X-Files, Kids in
the Hall, The West Wing, Dexter, Rob & Big (Yeah, I can't
believe it either), Jericho, The Soup
Music: Amy Ray, The Beatles, Nick Cave & The Bad Seeds, Bruce
Springsteen (both with and without the E Street Band, although I
prefer with), Indigo Girls, Green Day, Foo Fighters, Rufus
Wainwright, Flight of the Conchords, the 80s R&B sensation
Bobby Light
The six things I could never do without
Lately, it seems like I can't go without thinking "...Bowie" if I
hear or see the phrase, "That's pretty freaky." Sometimes it makes
me giggle.
I do love TV on DVD, although I could obviously survive without it.
But would that really be a life worth living???
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Self diagnosis of both physical and mental ailments.
What I should or should not be doing with life.
Planning trips, or just imaging myself in another city or
country.
What TV show I should be obsessed with next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Depends on who I am with, really. I have friends that I watch lot
of movies and TV with, and with them I tend to do things I would
describe as nerdy. As I am without a significant other or roommate,
I tend to spend a significant amount of time alone though, and I'm
totally fine with that for the most part. I get lonely at certain
times and I wouldn't mind having someone around more often, but I'm
fine with amusing myself through reading, listening to music,
writing, watching movies, and sitting around staring at the
wall.
But then sometimes I really like to go out, especially if I'm in
the company of a more extroverted person. As long as I am around
people that keep me energized, I'm agreeable with going out to bars
or clubs and doing the whole dancing/drinking/being silly thing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I wish I could say I have no sense of shame, but I really reallllly
do, so whatever I admit in this space wouldn't really be a private
thing.
You should message me if
Please don't bother messaging me (Yes, it has come to this):
- You're really into Jesus/God/New Age stuff. Because I'm not. And
while I respect your beliefs and wish you much happiness in life,
I'm not into any of the above except in an academic sense.
Fascinating stuff, but I don't belive in any of it.
- You're looking for a relationship and already have a kid. Or you
are already in a relationship. I also don't want a threeway with
you and your ugly husband.
- You are really into sports and drinking, and nothing else. You
can be into either one of those things, but if your profile just
says, "I'm a really easy going person that likes to watch baseball
and go out." Well... you and 10,000 other people, buddy. What's
special?
Otherwise, feel free to message me.