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30 Calgary, Alberta, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 26
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Working on law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently), Yiddish, LISP (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am an impassioned learner and I love to listen to people’s stories. I’ve been told I’m someone people can open up to. I’m the kind of guy who likes to tread many paths - I love art, come from a family of artists, but I took sciences in university and am passionate about it.

I’m an inveterate book-worm, but I can cavort on the dance floor shamelessly with the best of them. I love the nerdy things in life - Doctor Who, speculative fiction, video games, etc.

I’ve got a pitch-black sense of humour, but I’m not above making a terrible pun. I’m a bundle of stereotype defying contradictions - wondering what this could mean? Message me!
What I’m doing with my life
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I’m a technology professional and law student, I work with non-profit organizations to help them be more awesome by using new technology. I study corruption, resource management and conflict. I value working on things that matter more than money - ideally, you do too. How this plays out as a plan is rather convoluted, if you're interested.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a very engaged listener - I'm present and focused in a way others have a hard time doing.

I am good at putting voice to the thoughts of others in a way they find pleasing or useful.

I'm also a pretty good cook and masseur.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I make the kinds of jokes and remarks around strangers that most would only make with friends.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The most influential book in my formative years has to be Ender's Game; I know, stereotypical nerd fixation but it's true.

That said, affording my own dismissal through failure to include/exclude a specific item is not something I want to endorse, even implicitly.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
internet, words, my dog, pen and paper, philosophy, humour
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
thinking - really, I took cognitive science in uni, so it's a big deal for me.

I also obsess about problems, big and little. I compulsively attempt to solve things - it's just in my nature.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm sporadically self-employed, so some Friday nights I'm working. Otherwise I'm probably enjoying Netflix or a book and a decent single-malt.

Occasionally I can be found at a drinking establishment debating existentialism or at a club dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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For whatever reason, I have a visceral response to embarrassment scenes in movies and TVs to the point where I feel compelled to change the channel or look away. Even merely awkward moments make me cringe. It doesn't happen every time, but often enough for me to think it abnormal.

I have lots of theories why this might be the case, but I'm not really certain.
You should message me if
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You're looking for someone to have fun with in a variety of ways. I like nights in watching movies but I also love to dance, drink and carouse.

Being a card-carrying nerd, I like board games, video games etc. I love the outdoors, especially walking with my dog but I also like shopping (I’m a fun, if brutally honest, shopping buddy!).

So ideally I’m looking for someone who likes that sort of thing. Someone mature, someone with a strong sense of self.

Message me if you want to tell me your story, and maybe craft one together?