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38 M Alexandria, VA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 33–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:12am
Black, Other
6′ 6″ (1.98m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from med school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid

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My self-summary
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They say that love happens when you least expect it. But I think finding love is all about making a choice. We're all here for the same reasons.

I'm at the age where the man I am is who a woman will be with. So who is that man? He's charming, funny, outgoing, decent under the hood and in the kitchen, attentive, and a good communicator. He sometimes speaks in 3rd person. If my family and close friends had to describe me using 3 words, the most common ones would be loyal, patient, and humble.

I live a pretty healthy lifestyle - don't smoke, seldom drink, and I try to be in the gym a few times per week. I recently took up boxing and will be playing in a winter basketball rec league.

I'm mentally sane, spiritually whole, and financially settled. I do have 2 children that live w/ me, but that doesn't deter me from dating. I'd prefer someone local, but traveling is not a problem if there's some serious initial interest.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Relocating back to VA for a new job

Getting into boxing
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.

Building stuff w/ Legos


Doing ponytails (I have a daughter so being able to do her hair is a must)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height definitely and most recently, my hands

My beard of prosperity. (never trust a man whose facial hair can't connect. Unless his name is Shawn Carter or Pharrell Williams. Those guys are struggle-face legends)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Anything spicy and a good steak. I also gotta have a greasy philly every now and then. I just got this juicer and have decided to try the whole green juice craze. If you have any tips or cool recipes, please share!

I'm a fan of great voices and elaborate production, so my music collection is all over the place.

Guardians of the Galaxy is the 2nd best movie to come out of Marvel. Top 5 I've seen this year.

Far as tv, I don't get to watch it much. Mainly it's background noise or I'm watching a game of some type
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Toothbrush/toothpaste/tongue scraper
My kids
Maple walnut ice cream
Clean socks
A bible

No ranking order though
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
New workout regimens. I'm far from a gym rat, but I like to be creative with my exercises. I get bored easily.

Why Jenny had to do my man Forrest like that. Smh
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The movies, a quick road trip, hosting a game night, or at a sports bar watching a game. (I am on 24 hr call once a month though.)

Being a parent, no Friday (or any day for that matter) is really "typical". I am a creature of routine though.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Mrs Doubtfire is 1 of my favorite movies. It's 1 of those movies where you didn't fully get the symbolism until you got older.
You should message me if
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Your pictures don't have Instagram filters on them. Let your true self shine through, woman!

Your main picture is not a group photo w/ your more attractive friend who is very taken

You have a sense of humor