I'm at the age where the man I am is who a woman will be with. So who is that man? He's charming, funny, outgoing, decent under the hood and in the kitchen, attentive, and a good communicator. He sometimes speaks in 3rd person. If my family and close friends had to describe me using 3 words, the most common ones would be loyal, patient, and humble.
I live a pretty healthy lifestyle - don't smoke, seldom drink, and I try to be in the gym a few times per week. I recently took up boxing and will be playing in a winter basketball rec league.
I'm mentally sane, spiritually whole, and financially settled. I do have 2 children that live w/ me, but that doesn't deter me from dating. I'd prefer someone local, but traveling is not a problem if there's some serious initial interest.