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39 Alexandria, VA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 33–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Mar 3
Black, Other
6′ 6″ (1.98m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from med school
Has a kid

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
They say that love happens when you least expect it. But I think finding love is all about making a choice. We're all here for the same reasons. So stop being a lurker!

I'm the type of guy who observes and then responds/reacts. I'm the consummate ambivert. Love to travel and have already planned out my 2015 trips. You know I'm passionate because I finished med school. Or maybe that makes me slightly crazy to have spent half my life in school. Either way, I have my own parking space and a large collection of ties.

I live a pretty healthy lifestyle - don't smoke, seldom drink, and I try to be in the gym a few times/week.

Mentally sane, spiritually whole, and financially settled. I do have 2 children that live w/ me, but that doesn't deter me from dating. I'd prefer someone local, but traveling is not a problem if there's some serious initial interest.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Mentoring 2 young men so they can pass the MCAT

Teaching myself how to play piano
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.

Building stuff w/ Legos


Doing ponytails (I have a daughter so being able to do her hair is a must)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height definitely and most recently, my hands

My beard of prosperity. (never trust a man whose facial hair can't connect. Unless his name is Shawn Carter or Pharrell Williams. Those guys are struggle-face legends)

That I'm not your typical doctor. People expect me to be dressed in a Polo and khakis or suits (and I do dress like that) and harp on my job/lifestyle a lot. But my career doesn't define me. I have very down-to-earth qualities that leave people pleasantly surprised. Try me :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Anything spicy and a good steak. I also love a greasy Philly every now and then. My favorite fruit is strawberry. So if there's strawberry in it, I'm eating it.

I'm a fan of great voices and elaborate production, so my music collection is all over the place.

Last movie I saw that I really liked was The Judge. Good role to see RDJ out of the Iron Man suit

Far as tv, I don't get to watch it much. Mainly it's background noise or I'm watching a game of some type.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Toothbrush/toothpaste/tongue scraper
My kids
Maple walnut ice cream
Clean socks
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
New workout regimens. I'm far from a gym rat, but I like to be creative with my exercises. I get bored easily.

Why women claim to be so against drama. I'm going to assume that either you initiate drama or it seems to follow you in every relationship you're in. Not a good quality or statement to lead with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The movies, a quick road trip, or at a sports bar watching a game
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have 10+ tattoos, mostly collages of people/things that are important to me. So if that's not your thing, better to have that tidbit before you click the "like" button.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Your pictures don't have Instagram filters on them.

Your main picture is not a group photo w/ your more attractive friend who is very taken

You have a great sense of humor (bonus if you've ever gotten sucked into a Youtube vortex when all you wanted was to find out if that 1 song ever had a video)