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39 New York, NY Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:51pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Status
Single
Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Other (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
i am a compassionate and humble BADASS. i am seeking the same in a female companion.

i've got RIDICULOUS street cred to back that statement up, by the way.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
for work: non-profit, part of which is getting to run meditation and inclusivity programs. basically a job that would make any hipster insanely jealous. (suck on THAT, hipsters!)

for fun: i am quite an accomplished musician who gets to perform the music he loves with some of the most talented musicians in nyc.

other than that:
looking for meaning.
looking for genuine people.
giving thanks when i find them.
preparing for the apocalypse.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
improvising
organizing
teaching
traveling
communicating
adapting
Foreplay!
channeling
cleaning
pontificating
singing
cooking
procrastinating
synthesizing
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
honestly, i have no clue. maybe my hair?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books: tibetan book of the dead
movies: dead man, dead man walking
shows: walking dead
music: grateful dead, dead can dance, dead milkmen

food: thinking of going 100% vegetarian. bonus points for you if you can show me the way! i humbly submit myself to your authority and knowledge. (and your spankings when i "get it wrong.")
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
friends & family
my mandolin
singing
my beloved china cat
travel
farmers' markets
dick's picks volume 36
march madness
nature: beach, mountains, canyons, whatever!
i.p.a. (sure, i could do without it. but, why *should* i?)
sonicare

yes, that's more than 6, but i don't do well with convention or limitation. i was that kid who always drew outside the lines. i simply don't fit well into boxes.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the easiest ways to get off the island once the shit hits the fan! thinking of investing in a raft.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
batman.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
you want to put my privates in your mitt? WHAT???
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you want to reserve a seat on my raft. priority goes to women who have been stockpiling canned goods, matches and weed. you can bring your dog if you're really nice.