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27 F Raleigh, NC

My Details

Last Online
Dec 21, 2011
Middle Eastern, Black, Native American, White
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly kosher
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Fluently), Hebrew (Okay), Spanish (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
My reason for being here:
I have a relationship for the first time with a man and he is so good to me and it's somewhat open and it's maybe a poly relationship depending. I'm not looking for hook-ups. If you think I'm kewl/interesting in a good way and you just want friendship and to talk then please add me on Facebook, request for my url/name there.

I am a Mystic, Two-Spirited, Intellectual.

I'm hormonally Female, Mentally Female, semi Intersex and Transsexual MtF Woman finally beginning to really become me starting HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy). I naturally have higher levels of Estrogen like any other girl but just too much Testosterone... but I am blossoming so I'm told. It's a plus having more Female hormones already in my system. So in a way I'm the daughter of Hermes and Aphrodite... or to actually relate it more to my spirituality a daughter of YHVH & Shekhinah. I have been living as my true woman self 24/7 for over a year now and because it's a part of the legal process I received the "therapy letter" to prove I'm Transsexual and that I need to continue the transition with hormones and so forth. I personally already knew that I'm a woman but the letter opens many doors to move me forward with my transition. Even though things take time and money, I'm willing to fully transition at some point. If you can't read between the lines, don't ask what body parts do I have. If you realize I'm trans and can accept that... and you want to send me a message then put in the subject title or first sentence where I can see it... that you accept it.

Some people use the term Transgender but it's too much of an umbrella term used for different types of gender benders. In other-words I am not a crossdresser because I do not identify as a man wearing women's clothes but as a woman wearing what I want. I have a Gender-Fluid quality about myself... I like being a woman whether butch or fem... mostly fem I guess. But, if you can't take the heat get out of the kitchen — I've got some baking to do.

"Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart."
- Psalm 37:4

I'm Sapiosexual meaning I am attracted to Intelligent people... and being Intellectual is important. I don't mean being a "smart ass"... and I don't mean the person has to have six million degrees, or the highest IQ... nor do I mean hide your intelligence and act ridiculous or completely stupid. I mean great conversation, openness, laughter, art, music, spirituality, and most definitely common sense. I'm sure I still have a lot to learn with all the above... but I'm willing to do so. I love to teach as well.

I'm Gray-A PanRomantic which means I'm not always actually into sex... I don't actually like it as much as most people but like it more than Asexuals. However I find people of all genders and orientations beautiful and could fall in love with anyone of any gender(s) or orientation(s).

When I care to be sexual this is me on the Kinsey Scale in CAPS.

0- Exclusively heterosexual
1- Predominantly heterosexual, incidentally homosexual
3- Equally heterosexual and homosexual
4- Predominantly homosexual, more than incidentally heterosexual
5- Predominantly homosexual, incidentally heterosexual
6- Exclusively homosexual

Now that the gender and sexual orientation info is out of the way:

I love to talk religion/spirituality, sexuality, and be artistic. Model, paint, sculpt, draw, act, sing, "dance" LOL... I love artistic and spiritual people.

I've always been heart first before the physical. But it led me to settling before my time and falling in love with the wrong people. So I'm telling you now... I have to be spirituality/emotionally and physically attracted to you for us to fully work...and vice versa. COMMUNICATION: I'm big on communication. If your feelings change let me know right away. Don't hang on to me because you are afraid to hurt my feelings. This is something that I'm learning goes both ways.

I am totally a Religious Studies nerd which doesn't mean I know everything... but I'm trying *laughs a little*. I'm getting more involved with the local transdenominational Jewish Renewal Congregation which is Neo-Hasidic taking on the beauty and spirituality of Hasidic Judaism without the Ultra-Orthodox nonsense and more I'm involved with Earth Based Judaism and a bit of Humanist. I LOVE listening to the upbeat music, chants, open spirituality, and mysticism in Jewish Renewal and getting in touch with the earth thru a Jewish basis. I happen to agree with a lot of what I've experienced in Reconstructionist Judaism and it seems Humanist Judaism as well. If I ever "lost" all religion I'd still be humanity and earth focused... which in ways I think is Judaism anyway. When it comes to Ultra-Orthodoxy I'm all encompassing of the Beauty of the rituals, tribes, and deities of the Hebrews... and despising of the law bound, man made, ficked up scheisse they now call traditional Judaism. So I follow a Jewish and Ancient Israelite (Middle Eastern) Path. The Israelite/Hebrew-Canaanite God Yahweh/El/Illu and Hebrew/Israelite-Canaanite Goddess Shekhinah/Asherah/Atiratu... as a worshipper of the Near/Middle Eastern Hebrew/Israelite G*ddess and G*d I find my way to The Ancient One... The Infinite Light: Ohr Ein Sof.... and Elohim. So I'm not a polytheist... but monotheist or duotheist maybe... I'm just a theist. All are One Force, Echad and I find all religions and paths to be important and all the deity expressions fascinating. So I study religions and various spiritual paths. Religious practices help give me a balance in life and with the artistic way I view life these paths fit it well. I have an interest in various religions especially as they overlap with my spirituality and I love the beauty I've found so far. I'm a M'agelet (female Jewish practitioner of Kosher magick) and practical Kabbalist... and I uphold the Jewish holidays and I keep Kosher style. Right now my flowers are my children and I'm researching Permaculture and other Eco-friendly methods or ways of living. I'm a Witch but most fitting between being Jewish and witchy is the term Jewitch. A witch is what I've already been talking about... not someone who is evil. However I do protect myself. I want to be a light to others. And a wonderful friend once said I could be a "free roaming Jewish Shamanic synagogue but the wind and the trees." I LOVE the sound of that. So with that... I give you tons of labels for me.... I love the Divine and I love the earth and I love working with the earth and the Divine to achieve Tikkun Olam (Heal the World).

I have several names and nicknames... so when the time is right you'll receive a name from me. Spiritually I'm what one might call a Shapeshifter... but nothing evil or psychotic I promise.

To sum up my spirituality in a quote so far the following says it best,
"My heart has become a pasture for gazelles, a monastery for monks, a temple for idols, a Qa'aba for the pilgrim, the tables [scroll] of the Torah and the pages of the Qur'an. My religion is Love now. Wherever it takes me, Love is my religion and my faith." - Ibn Arabi, 12th-Century Sufi, Al-Andalus

I love to share what all I've learned and it excites me to teach, be an artist, and share my knowledge of life, traditions, Sign Language and more. I have done some teaching of Sign Language, guiding people on their spiritual path and critiquing and advising people in their artwork. Teaching and LGBT Activism are my purposes in life.

Through spiritual Judaism and my knowledge of various other religions... I want to be a Professor/Teacher and I hope to get back in school soon so I can really pursue that.

There is a chance I'm Polyamorous leaning Polyfidelitous. In the past I've hoped to have a man and a woman and be committed to both of them equally. But this is still something I'm trying to figure out. I know I was THRILLED to be with a man and a woman before. I'm just not sure that's for me. I would love to meet other people with similar interests... whether 3 men, or 2 men and a woman, or those in need of another... or basically whatever. I'm still trying to understand the Polyfidelitous part and if that is really for me... we shall see.

Shalom, Light/Dark & Love, Namaste, and Blessed Be
What I’m doing with my life
Encouraging others to live and know the are loved. I'm an Activist... and LGBT Activist.

"Condemnation does not liberate; it oppresses."
- C.G. Jung

"Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world."
- Lucille Ball

"Love one another"
- Rabbi Yeshua (Jesus) ben Yosef

I've been a Visual Artist all my life. I went to college to study Art for 5 years in areas such as Advertising and Graphic Design, Visual/Fine Art, and Photography. I do some book cover designs and so forth... painting and more when I can. I LOVE being an artist. But what I see that comes first is my love for teaching and LGBT/IQPA Activism!!! At heart I am a Teacher and LGBT Activist. I love to share what I've learned over the years in Sign Language and Religious Studies. I taught a small class twice a month, Sign Language and I'm tutoring now in Religion. I hope to pick that class back up soon. I ultimately want to be a Professor in Religion possibly... but things change we shall see where life takes me.
I’m really good at
holding a conversation hopefully, painting, drawing, sculpting, religion, teaching, Sign Language, laughing and being silly, and being serious...... hmmmm My A.D.D.-ness

But it isn't too bad I suppose. Besides my A.D.D. can be fun! :)
The first things people usually notice about me
”So I be written in the Book of Love; I do not care about that Book above. Erase my name, or write it as you will, So I be written in the Book of Love.”
- old Persian poet, Omar-Khayyam

My face preferably... :) Other than that, my height. My average height is 6'2".... in other words not my tallest but not my shortest either.... I'm 5'11" with no shoes. .... But I hear my eyes might be the first thing noticed.... I seem to get a lot of compliments on them. This is still new for me I guess... *blush* I didn't realize. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Religious Texts, Non-Fiction,
- Magickal Judaism
- Whisper of Stone
- God is a Verb
- Shades of Gay

Movies: Not too picky. If it involves time travel, fantasy, Science Fiction, and/or sexuality, I'm there.

"T.V." Shows: Dr. Who, Torchwood, HGTV, Setup Squad

Music: Religious Music, World/Ethnic Music, Gothic, Alternative, Folk, Classic Rock, Pop, Metal...

Food: Kosher, Mediterranean/Middle Eastern, Mexican, Italian, Indian, Chinese, Steak Houses, Vegetarian, American. Depending on whom I'm around does my Vegetarian-ism waver. But I stay Kosher the best I can.
The six things I could never do without
1. People
2. Restaurants
3. Libraries/Books
4. my laptop
5. Stores
6. my space (not the website)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...religion and spirituality, balance, my career and education, art, sexuality, LGBT Activism and Suicide Prevention... The Future... and traveling out of this country in the next 10 years... maybe settling somewhere else...

ultimate destination: Israel... and maybe a place in the UK, France, and/or Australia.
On a typical Friday night I am
...spending time with family and/or friends observing and creating a magickal Shabbat. We talk about life, love/liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. *laughs* We sing, pray, dance, talk art and writing, and we eat. Or we may go out on some occasions to enjoy Friday night Erev Shabbat. It is a time of fun, relaxation, and peace whether with Manischewitz wine or sparkling grape juice, water, soda, Challah (Sabbath Bread) and a meal. I LOVE it! Since August I started attending Temple/Synagogue again and it's every Friday night. I'm enjoying that... I love the time with fun LGBTQ accepting religious/spiritual people. I'm learning so much and the rabbi is really "down to earth" and it's a very educational service. After service I often go out and eat. Of course there is always oneg... but a meal is always nice afterwards when I can with friends.

*IMPORTANT: If you have my number, I do not use my phone on Sabbath. Do NOT call or text me from 5pm every Friday to 8pm every Saturday. Thank you!!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit

The next ATHEIST that tries to convert me to your Atheism and the indoctrination of YOUR beliefs... WILL BE BLOCKED. I get more shit from you guys than Christians at this point for even daring to raise my future children JEWISH. Atheists that don't proselytize... HI, nice to meet you.

I also spend a lot of time thinking about whether I want kids or not. If I have kids whether biological or adopted... they WILL be raised spiritual and humanity focused,... so Jewish. If you have a problem with that or want to raise them Jewish along with a whole other religion from Christian, Atheist, Wiccan... then we have a problem... it will be a deal breaker. They can definitely learn from various scripture texts (not just Jewish) or just life... as do I. I'm fine with the mystical, magickal, and so forth and teaching the children about other religions or non-beleifs BUT Humanity and Judaism will be the foundation of my home. On a lighter note: The path of Judaism is one that inspires a person to think for themselves.... and I want my children to be in that kind of environment... one of prayer, education, song, healing of the world, and more. I love studying religions so of course I believe they will have the same opportunity but their foundation as my children will be Judaism. They can choose otherwise if they want when they are older.

Presently, I am enough excitement I don't need any kids right now... but in the future I'll probably feel differently. If I have them I definitely expect respect and love to be a part of the parent and child relationship. As I get older I feel more ready to have children some day. But we shall see.

I need someone who is satisfied and happy with not setting up a Christmas tree. They are beautiful in other homes but a pain for me LoL. I do not want one.

I have a sensitive digestive system.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You realize I'm transitioning and can handle that... and in some way, shape, or form you find me attractive, interesting, inspiring, mysterious, or just plain likable and/or weird.

Do NOT message me if:

... if all you want is sex and no friendship.

... if you are a drunk, Bi-Polar, and/or with Split Personality Disorder... and/or looking for me to fuck you in the ass.

If you are a drunk or looking for a drinking buddy, keep trucking baby cause you "ain't" finding that here. I drink socially and/or on occasion. But drunkenness is unattractive.

If you're Bi-Polar or have Split Personality Disorder I don't think it will work out between us. I have presently some Bi-Polar friends but I'm not looking to be in a relationship with them nor are they influencing anyone I'm in a relationship with. The Bi-polar people I got close to in the past, I ended up having to leave because they were verbally abusive... every one of them. That's just the truth. Like I said, I've mad more Bi-polar friends since and we are getting along fine. I just don't think I need to date someone who is. I'm sorry to all those good ones out there.

Finally: If you are an Atheist and happy I'm glad that you are happy. But we will more than likely not be dating each other.

~ Peace ~

P.s. Let's cut to the "chase" here... ask me out. I'm tired of just messages after messages.... let's meet?