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38 M Washington, DC

My Details

Last Online
Apr 5
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
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Relationship Type
English, German (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm originally from Montana by way of Oregon. I'm now living in DC. Obviously.

Other than my geographic background, what else do you want to know? I like backpacking or hiking or biking almost any time (even though I don't do it as often as I like to think and act like I do). I commute by bicycle. I love cooking and eating. Currently trying to make way more international travel part of my life.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a great job I love. Is that what this question is about?

I own a house and have spent a lot of time getting it into livable condition. Enjoying a new deck; next project: garden.

You might also catch me nerding out about food/cooking, various areas of science, and architecture and urban planning. Policy and politics too.
I’m really good at
Planning and executing elaborate meals, especially if grilling and/or baking is involved. Going on trips and other adventures with little advance planning.

Talking too much, especially to over-explain.

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Kavalier and Clay. The Rest is Noise. The Big Short. The Metamorphosis. For Whom the Bell Tolls. The Grapes of Wrath. Honestly, I like more books than I could ever name, and I have more books than I could ever read, much less like.

The Muppets. Rear Window. Fight Club. 30 Rock. The Daily Show. Modern Family. R.E.M. Old 97s. Dwight Yoakam. Adele (recent discovery). Neko Case. The Decemberists.

I like pretty much all food, especially grilled or baked if I'm making it. I really like cooking with and and for people.

Shouldn't we just discuss these things as you're going through my bookcases and iTunes while I'm cooking you dinner?
The six things I could never do without
The ability to prepare food (i.e. a kitchen or at least a fire pit, and ideally some utensils...), something to read, and a sleeping bag.

I would prefer to also have a tent (if not a house) and I really like having a bike to get around town.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Getting away.
How one might solve global warming or the dangerous state of American food and nutrition or the erosion/implosion of the American middle class. Whether our country's political system is still capable of solving large complex problems.
The next 17 things I should be doing to my house.
On a typical Friday night I am
Often just decompressing from the week, either by myself (reading, watching bad TV, cooking, drinking a beer) or with a few friends (cooking, drinking, out for dinner).

Maybe meeting a bigger group of friends for dinner and drinks.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I find So You Think You Can Dance to be one of the best shows on tv. I blame the invention of DVR technology for this problem.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Really, if anything here strikes you as interesting, feel free.

Unless you included a favorable (not sarcastic) reference to Ayn Rand in your profile. Just kidding. Mostly.