I'm looking for a "partner in crime" for non-kink related outdoor (and indoor) activities and/or a steady, long-term play partner.
I'm ordinarily wired for butch/masculine, but a recent encounter piqued my curiosity, so femme has intrigued me of late.
Tattoos/piercings are a plus.
I'm an active member of Seattle's leather community, a past Seattle Leather Daddy and Northwest LeatherSir, a member of the CSPC Center for Sex Positive Culture (#450) and an educator in the leather/fetish community.
I've taught workshops in the US and Canada, at International Ms Leather, International LeatherSir, Folsom Street Fair Weekend (at Femina Potens Gallery), Mister Leather Toronto, The Floating World, Kinkfest, Leather Reign, NW Leather Celebration, Paradise, The Wet Spot, and Seattle Men in Leather's Equinox.
I'm in an open relationship; we've been together for 11 years and an open relationship for 5+ years.
While pickup and casual play are fun, exploring the boundaries of BDSM and the intimacy of BDSM play requires knowing your play partner well. That knowledge and mutual trust takes time to develop.