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26 M Monroe, CT

My Details

Last Online
May 6
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a security researcher originally from a tiny town in Pennsylvania. Music is my life and it's rare that you'll find me not listening to something. I'm very open-minded when it comes to relationships; there are very few deal-breakers for me. I'm a little-L libertarian/anarcho-capitalist and frequently write about it and politics in general.

I'm serious about transhumanism and my work with brain-computer interfaces has been most notably featured in H+ Magazine.

When I have time, I love to travel and can be found in demoparties all over Europe. Currently up to ten countries visited and counting.

I'm also a Nerdfighter. If you know what that means, then we're already off to an awesome start. DFTBA!
What I’m doing with my life
Working as a security consultant (I break into banks and the like for a living), teaching an online course on web security, traveling, and having fun.

I'm also an advisor to a new record label, manage my roommates' band, and play a lot of guitar and bass. Life isn't worth living without good music!
I’m really good at
Analyzing people, playing therapist, discussing music, but not writing about what I'm good at!
The first things people usually notice about me
Either my sharp wit or the fact that I'm a tall, fairly big guy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite books are: Slammed by Colleen Hoover, Makers and Little Brother by Cory Doctorow, A Song of Ice and Fire series by GRRM, The Diamond Age and Snow Crash by Neal Stephenson, White Oleander by Janet Fitch, LotR by JRR Tolkien (obligatory), the Xanth series by Piers Anthony.

My favorite movies are: The Royal Tenenbaums, Garden State, Pulp Fiction, Talladega Nights, Wedding Crashers, Zoolander, White Oleander, Clerks, Repo! The Genetic Opera, Lars and the Real Girl.

My favorite bands/musicians are: The Decemberists, Fleet Foxes, Machinae Supremacy, David Bowie, Andrew Bird, Jeff Buckley, Pink Floyd, Elliott Smith, Nick Drake, Blind Guardian, Animals As Leaders, Scale The Summit, Godspeed You! Black Emperor, Ayreon, Barenaked Ladies, Sarah Fimm, The Shins, The Beatles, The Beach Boys (Pet Sounds, specifically), Elton John, Bob Dylan, Cake, Counting Crows (August and Everything After), The Unseen Guest.
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My favorite types of food are: Thai, Spanish, Catalan, Mexican, Japanese, and anything else that's flavorful and fun.
The six things I could never do without
1) Good friends
2) Music
3) My computers
4) My guitars
5) My Kindle
6) Travel
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Work and the future, particularly my future family.
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing music and preparing lessons for class.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a hard time starting conversations with people I don't know in real life unless I'm introduced.

Oh, and I <3 ankle socks. Cutest things in the whole world.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–28
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You love music, can recite lines from The Royal Tenenbaums from memory, or just find me interesting.