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31 Edgewater, NJ Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 15
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Working on masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Hello stranger whom I never met before. My name is Matt. I was born and raised in northern NJ. I haven't felt the need to leave because I'm so close to NYC and not too far from the beach either. However, I love traveling and hope to visit a lot more places going forward. I'm a big sports fan including: football (Big Blue!), baseball, hockey, basketball, etc. I enjoy staying fit and make it a goal to stay healthy. I also enjoy listening to music and going to concerts. I have probably seen more movies than most people. I am addicted to my iPhone and all technology yet at the same time I like time away from technology whether its white water rafting, playing tennis, or other outdoor activities.

People would describe me as thoughtful, funny, and loyal. Of course I have flaws like anyone but isn't that what makes life interesting?
What I’m doing with my life
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I currently work as a senior web developer full-time at a publishing company in the NYC. I am also finishing up Masters Degree and will be graduating in Spring 2013.
I’m really good at
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judging someone's character, building websites, cooking breakfast, Tennis, Hockey, maintaining close friendships
The first things people usually notice about me
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I would say that I'm laid back and intelligent. Also, my long eye lashes lol
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Big Lebowski, Braveheart, Heat, No Country for Old Men, Superbad, Pulp Fiction, Dark Knight, Wall-E

Music: Smashing Pumpkins, Led Zeppelin, The Beatles, Alice In Chains

Books: Hunger Games, Farewell To Arms
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Of course, my family and my friends are extremely important to me. And I would like to find a girl that feels the same way.

The other four things I would say are good music, football, working out at the gym, and food.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The next meal that I'm going to eat. It takes a lot of thought with so many choices lol.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Staying in NYC after work to go to a bar or try a new restaurant. I have no trouble staying home and watching a movie as well. It feels good to relax after a long week of work sometimes.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like watching American Idol. Gasp!
You should message me if
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I would love to hear from you if your down to earth, enjoy the simple things in life, and enjoy everything that life has to offer. I would like a girl who I can just be myself around. It would be nice if we share some common interests but also introduce me to new things.