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23 Jakarta, Indonesia Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20-45
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 20
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 9" (1.76m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Indonesian (Fluently)
My self-summary
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21 y.o. poli. sci. undergrad. Somewhat literate. Heavily writes notes. Could survive conversations. Into chat over coffee or booze. Or both. Not looking for immediate sex. Or boyfriend.
What I’m doing with my life
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I proclaim to be an afficionado of movies, music, and books (not because I read much enough, but because the consumption of mentioned arts gives me much of a delight). I also love travelling, short trips, road trips, a month full of trips, even. For the time being, I am looking forward to do a foodstall-hopping in Petak Sembilan, Jakarta, pampering the ever hungry tongue with Rujak Juhi, Rujak Shanghai, Ijs Koffie Kedai Tak Kie. I also write essays and fictions.

Planning to index nice, homey coffeshops around Jakarta (and Bandung). Obsessively reading fastco, lifehack, pickthebrain, brainpickings, and blogs. Sometimes I sneak to a meeting of interest groups in Jakarta. Sometimes Salihara, sometimes TEDx, sometimes Obrolan Langsat, sometimes I just pick a random topic, search who's who on that and be in his circle.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Noam Chomsky, Marjane Satrapi, Joan Didion, Ayu Utami, Dewi Lestari (pre the evil occupation of fame), Eka Kurniawan, Djenar Maesa Ayu, Fira Basuki, Oka Rusmini, Graphic Adaption of The Origin of Species

Movies: My Blueberry Nights, The Fall, Creation, Agora, RED, Kick-Ass, Breakfast At Tiffany's, The Devil Wears Prada, Love and Other Disasters, Les Fabuleux Destin de Amelie Poulain, J'ai Tue Ma Mere, Les Amour Imaginaires, Tiga Hari untuk Selamanya, GIE, Quickie Express, Fiksi, Berbagi Suami

Serials: Newsroom, Ugly Betty, Scandal, The Good Wife, House of Cards, White Collar, Suits, Pan Am,

Music: Feist, Duffy, Nina Simone, Lana Del Rey, Norah Jones, Etta James, Emi Fujita, John Legend, Carla Bruni, Lisa Ekhdal, Lisa Ono, James Morisson, John Mayer Trio, Steve Ray Vaugn, SORE, Payung Teduh, Banda Neira, Mocca, Corrine Bailey Rae, Alicia Keys, Dee Edwards
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where to go for the weekend, where to move next year, where to be or what to do next summer.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually with friends, on a food trip or road trip for the weekend, or just a small staycation that involves alcohol or dessert.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a morally-challenged person. Sometimes when the prize is worth it, I'm a Machiavellian.
You should message me if
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You're in Jakarta and looking for someone to have a conversation with, over coffee or cocktails.

Or anyone anywhere looking for nothing more than a harmless chat.