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dakkar_it

38 Northolt, UK Man, Cis Man

Man, Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 3:06am
Orientation
Bisexual, Pansexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.72m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of Ph.D program
Job
Technology
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Status
Single
Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Speaks
English (Fluently), Italian (Fluently), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Geek, feminist, funny in some ways, curious, political although cowardly not active about it, honest, Londoner. I love to cook for people, and I have some good chocolate that needs to be shared.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Stable employment, in a fun enough job. In my free time, I read, go out with friends, watch anime.

I've recently decided that I'm bi/pan/whatever, mostly because I realised that trying to classify people into 'man' and 'woman' boxes before deciding if I should be attracted to them was complicated, left out too many people, and I don't like arbitrary distinctions.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Software; listening to people; finding answers.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I make (bad) puns, maybe too often.
Or maybe that I'm very assertive when I know I'm right, and mostly silent when I'm not sure.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Writers: Catherynne Valente, Jo Walton, Mary Robinette Kowal, Kage Baker, Lois McMaster Bujold, John Scalzi, Charles Stross, Robert Heinlen, Terry Pratchett, Douglas Adams, Stefano Benni, Stanław Lem, Isaac Asimov.

Directors: Hayao Miyazaki; Isao Takahata; Mamoru Oshii; Terry Gilliam; Stanley Kubrick.

Musicians: Marian Call; The Mechanisms; CN Lester; Nightwish; Fabrizio De André; Pink Floyd; Queen; Helloween; Alan Parsons Project; Emerson, Lake and Palmer; The Pillows; David Bowie; Franco Battiato; Jethro Tull; Yoko Kanno; Jonathan Coulton.

Food: chocolate!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
General-purpose, programmable computers.
Books.
Friends.
The ability to wander through my city, walking.
Two more things to put here ☺
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How the universe works. How to get out of unlikely situations I make up in my own mind. How to work less.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want me to cook for you. No, seriously, my cooking skills are getting rusty, living by myself.

I often buy two tickets for events, and then look for people to bring with me, so you may be lucky and get a free film / show / gig!

Or maybe you want to watch some anime? Or discuss the world-building in some novel you've read.

These days I'm mostly looking for friends I can cuddle / make out / have sex with. I'm more attracted to people who present feminine, but feel free to try me ☺