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38 Northolt, UK Man, Cis Man

Man, Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 4:45am
Bisexual, Pansexual
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 8" (1.72m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism and it’s important
Dropped out of Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Italian (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Geek, feminist, funny in some ways, curious, political although cowardly not active about it, honest, Londoner. I love to cook for people, and I have some good chocolate that needs to be shared.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Stable employment, in a fun enough job. In my free time, I read, go out with friends, watch anime.

I've recently decided that I'm bi/pan/whatever, mostly because I realised that trying to classify people into 'man' and 'woman' boxes before deciding if I should be attracted to them was complicated, left out too many people, and I don't like arbitrary distinctions.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Software; listening to people; finding answers.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I make (bad) puns, maybe too often.
Or maybe that I'm very assertive when I know I'm right, and mostly silent when I'm not sure.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Writers: Catherynne Valente, Jo Walton, Mary Robinette Kowal, Kage Baker, Lois McMaster Bujold, John Scalzi, Charles Stross, Robert Heinlen, Terry Pratchett, Douglas Adams, Stefano Benni, Stanław Lem, Isaac Asimov.

Directors: Hayao Miyazaki; Isao Takahata; Mamoru Oshii; Terry Gilliam; Stanley Kubrick.

Musicians: Marian Call; The Mechanisms; CN Lester; Nightwish; Fabrizio De André; Pink Floyd; Queen; Helloween; Alan Parsons Project; Emerson, Lake and Palmer; The Pillows; David Bowie; Franco Battiato; Jethro Tull; Yoko Kanno; Jonathan Coulton.

Food: chocolate!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
General-purpose, programmable computers.
The ability to wander through my city, walking.
Two more things to put here ☺
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How the universe works. How to get out of unlikely situations I make up in my own mind. How to work less.
You should message me if
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You want me to cook for you. No, seriously, my cooking skills are getting rusty, living by myself.

I often buy two tickets for events, and then look for people to bring with me, so you may be lucky and get a free film / show / gig!

Or maybe you want to watch some anime? Or discuss the world-building in some novel you've read.

These days I'm mostly looking for friends I can cuddle / make out / have sex with. I'm more attracted to people who present feminine, but feel free to try me ☺