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46 Manchester, NH Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 21–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 23
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Educated in software engineering, nuclear power (in the Navy), banking. Now focused on more creative projects. Trans-friendly and receptive to dating an ftm.

I have no facial hair and very little body hair so if you're into scruffy bears, you'll be greatly disappointed. I'm not obviously gay but I am definitely not a hyper masculine kind of guy; maybe even a smidge gender queer.

My favorite things to do can be done in my home or a friend's home.

Would love to meet a guy who's fairly nerdy and not at all ashamed of it who will go to fantasy and sci-fi movies and nerd conventions with me and shit like that. It would be extra cool if he's into tabletop RPGs. I really love superhero movies though I was never into comics.
What I’m doing with my life
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Doing a talk radio show once a week from a studio in my house. It's called Flaming Freedom if you want to check it out. Working on a novel, wrote two feature-length horror movie scripts so far, have a third I still want to write.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making new friends, writing, humor, mediating conflict, driving (though I prefer to let someone else drive and be a passenger--literally, that's not an innuendo).
The first things people usually notice about me
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They mistake me for younger than I am and then are shocked when I start talking about all the things I've done in my life wondering when I've had time for it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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#1 superhero movie: The Avengers
#2 superhero movie: Iron Man
Suckiest superhero movie: Fantastic Four 1 and 2

Supernatural, Breaking Bad, House, horror movies (even the cheesiest ones), Scott Pilgrim, paleo(ish) food, superhero movies (but never was really into comics), Harry Potter, Game of Thrones, Buffy the Vampire Slayer

Mark Twain, H.P. Lovecraft, Joss Whedon
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
FRESH Coffee, Movies out, Movies in, Various Fantasy/Sci-fi indulgences including D&D, my cat
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The nature of consciousness and the approaching technological singularity, government sucking and the bastards running it, my favorite TV shows and the latest movies that I liked or really hated, trans issues.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching Netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I could get pretty kinky if my partner is into it, though it's absolutely not necessary and I can totally enjoy vanilla stuph. I think I'd have to get pretty comfortable with him first. Also, I spell "stuph" wrong.
You should message me if
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You like my profile or you just want a friend to watch movies with, hang out, etc. It's cool if dating transitions into friendship or vice-versa. (The vice-versa seems a little less awkward!) You don't have a phobia of libertarians.