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Educated in software engineering, nuclear power (in the Navy),
banking. Now focused on more creative projects. Trans-friendly and
receptive to dating an ftm.
I can't grow facial hair and have very little body hair so if
you're into scruffy bears, you'll be greatly disappointed. I'm not
obviously gay but I am definitely not a hyper masculine kind of
guy; maybe even a smidge gender queer.
My favorite things to do can be done in my home or a friend's
Would love to meet a guy who's fairly nerdy and not at all ashamed
of it who will go to fantasy and sci-fi movies and nerd conventions
with me and shit like that. It would be extra cool if he's into
tabletop RPGs. I really love superhero movies though I was never
What I’m doing with my life
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Doing a talk radio show once a week from a studio in my house. It's
called Flaming Freedom if you want to check it out. Working on a
novel, wrote two feature-length horror movie scripts so far, have a
third I still want to write.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making new friends, writing (I hope!), humor, mediating conflict,
driving (though I don't like to, cats).
The first things people usually notice about me
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They mistake me for younger than I am and then are shocked when I
start talking about all the things I've done in my life wondering
when I've had time for it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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#1 superhero movie: The Avengers
#2 superhero movie: Iron Man
Suckiest superhero movie: Fantastic Four 1 and 2
Supernatural, Breaking Bad, House, horror movies (even the
cheesiest ones), Scott Pilgrim, paleo(ish) food, superhero movies
(but never was really into comics), Harry Potter, Game of Thrones,
Buffy the Vampire Slayer
Mark Twain, H.P. Lovecraft, Joss Whedon
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
FRESH Coffee, Movies out, Movies in, Various Fantasy/Sci-fi
indulgences including D&D, my cat
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The book I'm writing, the nature of consciousness and the
approaching technological singularity, government sucking and the
bastards running it, my favorite TV shows and the latest movies
that I liked or really hated, trans issues.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching Netflix with my cat purring in my lap.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have the potential for kink but I'm skeptical about finding the
right chemistry with someone to be comfortable with it. Fortunately
I can totally enjoy vanilla stuph. If I explore it, I could be a
dom or a sub but not both with the same person; no switching. That
ruins it for me. Also, I spell "stuph" wrong.
You should message me if
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You also want to make friends and not just find people to date. I'm
open to making some friends on here.
You don't have to like cats. You just have to like my cat.
Also, the word "libertarian" doesn't make you break out in hives.
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