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dalebertus

45 M Manchester, NH

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 21–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
May 12, 2013
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Educated in software engineering, nuclear power (in the Navy), banking. Kinda been all over the place and dabbled in a lot. Now focused on more creative projects which seems to be my real calling. I tend to have lots of friends and I make friends really easily, but I crave deeper relationships with fewer people. Trans-friendly.

I'm extremely spiritual but not really religious with a panentheist view of "God" that some simply regard as atheist. I get along great with atheists, which make up most of my friends, and respect them. I most definitely do not believe anyone gets punished by... something... for believing the "wrong" things.

I'm a lesbian in a gay man's body. That's just my funny way of saying I don't fit many gay male stereotypes and I feel like I kind of have a stereotypical lesbian personality. (No, I don't want to be a woman. No, I am not into women at all.) I usually dress like a butch dyke but I painfully manage to look decent to go out. I have a powerful nesting instinct. I love my home and am very comfortable here but I have almost no decorating skills. I'm creative in some ways and incredibly practical and down to Earth in other ways. I don't need a lot of money for the things that make me happy but I feel very secure financially. I work for myself out of home so I spend a lot of time here. Would love to have a special guy to share it with (who CAN decorate?). Meanwhile, I'm receptive to dating casually. I figure that's the way I'll meet the right guy some day. Not rushing it.

Would love to meet a guy who's fairly nerdy and not at all ashamed of it who will go to fantasy and sci-fi movies and nerd conventions with me and shit like that. I really love superhero movies though oddly, I was never into comics.
What I’m doing with my life
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Doing a talk radio show twice a week (have a studio in my house), working on a novel, short films, wrote two feature-length horror movies so far, working on a third.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making new friends, writing, humor, mediating conflict, driving (though I prefer to let someone else drive and be a passenger--literally, that's not an innuendo).
The first things people usually notice about me
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They mistake me for younger than I am and are shocked when I start talking about all the things I've done in my life. I still get "Are you a student at [insert nearby college]?"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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#1 superhero movie: The Avengers
#2 superhero movie: Iron Man
Suckiest superhero movie: Fantastic Four 1 and 2

Supernatural, Breaking Bad, House, Glee (but not as much lately), horror movies (even the cheesiest ones), Scott Pilgrim, paleo(ish) food, superhero movies (but never was really into comics), Harry Potter, Game of Thrones, Buffy the Vampire Slayer

Mark Twain, H.P. Lovecraft, Joss Whedon
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
FRESH Coffee, Movies, Books, Fantasy/Sci-fi, Food, & Water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The nature of the universe and consciousness, government sucking and the bastards running it, my favorite TV shows and the latest movies that I liked or really freaking hated, LGBT issues since I have an LGBT talk radio show, lately with a particular focus on trans issues.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the Breezeway or just out with friends, though since I'm self-employed, the weekends tend to blur a bit with the weekdays and I might just be home working on something or relaxing, watching Netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can get pretty kinky if my partner is into it, though it's absolutely not necessary and I can totally enjoy vanilla stuph when I really like a guy. Just about anything turns me on easily. My libido doesn't seem to have tapered off at all as I've gotten older. Also, I spell "stuph" wrong.
You should message me if
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You like my profile and what I'm looking for describes you
OR you just want a friend to watch movies with, hang out, etc. It's cool if dating transitions into friendship or vice-versa. (The vice-versa seems a little less awkward!)