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33 M Brandon, FL

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 18–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Apr 23
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

I am not single. I am in a long distance relationship.

--Only looking for FRIENDS, please...not friends with benefits, just friends, and who live somewhat close to me, or, travel near central Florida often.

--I want to also connect with other musicians ...I can make music in several genres, such as Metal, Trance, EDM, and Ambient. I can play both guitar, and keyboards, doing both since I was 9 years old.

--I am also looking for other massage therapists to trade professional massage with, aside from looking for friends, or, people who are/have in the past pursuing/pursued massage, bodywork, physical therapy in college. I have been a Licensed Massage Therapist since June 2001.

--Additionally, I am looking for a workout partner. I used to be a Certified Personal Trainer, and I currently belong to LA FITNESS.


--Orientation: Sensual, Monogamous, Heterosexual Male

--NOT looking for casual sex...not all men are the same way...

--I am very healthy, and if your health does not matter that much, I don't think that a relationship will work at all, and often nor does a friendship, as I am often told by those same unhealthy, "I eat anything and everything, it doesn't matter" people that spending money on healthy food is a waste. I usually reply that to not value your health, and quality of life, is the real "waste".

--To make a few important points clear to understand, please allow me to list a few things about myself.
1. Music is always important to me, and I enjoy hard rock, metal, techno, classical, jazz, industrial, ambient, and 80s music.
2. I am straight, and I am monogamous.
3. I am pretty calm, and do not have a temper, and prefer to date a woman who does not have a bad temper.
4. I am pretty easy going in most ways, and not into drama, and playing mind games. My choices and emotions are clear, and do not change, and go back and forth randomly. Basically, I am blunt, direct, and up front, as you will notice, if you read my "the two of us" section, where the questions and answers are for the "Match %" thing.
5. I am not prescribed any medicine at all, for any reason. I am healthy mentally, physically, and emotionally.
6. When in a relationship, I NEVER cheat. I have a pretty high IQ, and I read dishonest women like a man reads a magazine full of beautiful women...I can clearly see what I want, and do not want, and my intentions are obvious for all to know.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I moved from San Diego California a few years ago.

I am always doing something fun, or interesting, or educational, and I have endless hobbies.

Being focused on health.

Being really bored late at night and going to Hard Rock Casino.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
--Being truly open minded, in everything that I do, but, also having boundaries for myself
--Building computer systems
--Making music
--Creating art
--Cooking organic food
--Martial arts
--Spanking a woman?
--Training people to be healthy/workout
--Professional Massage Therapy
--Playing the guitar
--Finding women who live 1000s of miles away who want to meet badly, but, are too busy to actually do it
--Video/Boardgames, although I don't play that much compared to the average player
--Laughing at people who drink a crap load of coffee, and/or soda every single day, yet, think it is normal. Even worse if you think caffeine is not a drug. Well, it is just as sad, as amusing, but... :>
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I look European
I have longer hair than most lesbians
I have a butt?
I have a calm and deep voice
I have a sense of humor??
(some do not notice that, though, or, maybe they do not have a sense of humor themselves?)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Anything related to Art, "Educational", "How - To", Science, Technology, and I helped write "Fifty Shades of Grey" LOL! (just kidding)
Bill and Ted's Excellent Adventure, Back to the Future, The Crow, Enter the Dragon, Terminator, Space Balls, Bram Stoker's Dracula, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, The Matrix, Interview with a Vampire, both of the new Sherlock Holmes, Legend, and many comedy and science related movies
Anything science related, and amusing like Shark Week, Beyond 2000, How its Made, Ancient Aliens, Beavis and Butthead, Ren & Stimpy, Aqua Teen Hunger Force, Robot Chicken, South Park, Family Guy, Adult Swim, Headbangers Ball
_Music Genres:
Ambient, Classical, Trance, Electronic, Industrial, Jazz, Metal, Blues, New age, most 80s, most 90s,
High quality Italian, Japanese styles
Organic fresh fruits, like blueberries, and oranges
High quality organic meat
Organic dark chocolate
(I like to cook often, almost daily, and I know what I am doing, too! LOL!)

(Going back to music more specifically)

Here are 2 videos of what I call good music. Both are songs from melodic, WORLD FAMOUS, (especially outside the USA, but, also here, too), metal bands, and both you won't hear on mainstream radio stations in this country, at least, but, will hear them on XM. (both songs released in 2012):
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Organic, fresh, and healthy food
Good, restful sleep
My physical and mental health
My Parakeets
Music, which includes both: my instruments, and, all the good music that exists in the world
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
(A mix of general thoughts, and, thoughts related to being on this site):

-I miss how things used to be, when you wrote a woman a real letter, and she loved getting a long letter from you. Now, if you send a woman an email with any length to it, they are often either "overwhelmed", or, "too tired to reply right now", or, some other somewhat negative statement is the response. Everything now is almost "text chat" length, as the emails used to be long, and now, are getting shorter, and shorter, as time passes. Everyone is also getting less personal, in many ways.

-Sometimes I wish there was a box women could check on this website, for if they like men with long hair, (some women talk to me for weeks before they admit they do not really like men with long hair, and think that I should cut it for them before we start dating).

-Why do some women answer "Match% Questions/The Two of Us" section questions, yet, if you ask them about many of them, they freak out, and refuse to talk about them, and even, sometimes, stop talking to you 100%. WHY do they even do the questions then, if they do not want people to see them, and/or, talk about them? THAT MAKES NO SENSE.

-Why people play stupid mind games, and are not honest about who they are, and what they want.

-Why do so many people smoke cigarettes!

-Why do I sometimes attract selfish control freaks, as I like balance, and consideration, and kind women.

-Europe, and European women sound so appealing lately, as many of them prefer a man with long hair. Seems like here in the USA women prefer ghetto / gang people, or jocks. It used to be different here, as this country has changed so much in the last 10 years, compared to when I was a teen.

-Why massage therapists are so weird in FL, compared to Texas, NY, and California, and Europe, for that matter.

-The world, and all the chaos within it, as I wish people were better as a whole, and less selfish, shallow, hateful, and greedy.

-How much sex is too much sex?
(At least I am honest! LOL!)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
-Learning/reading, online,
-Playing my guitars
-Practicing martial arts
-Playing online, (video games, movies, etc)
-At the jacuzzi
-I am almost never at a bar, especially the ones in Florida, where indoor smoking is allowed. Exception is Hard Rock Casino..shhh!
-Cooking an organic feast, (yes, I cook often, and I am good at it, too)
-Laying naked on my bed, pouring hot coconut oil all over my body, (hehe, no, I am totally joking!! ...I USE ALOE INSTEAD!!)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People should put something here. Effort is attractive, you know?

Here are a few things:

--I think masturbation is boring, and almost pointless.

--People often misunderstand me, who I am, what I actually said, what my real intentions are, and so on. It gets so old how so many people just assume that they know who I am, or, what I am thinking, yet, never actually ask me. Sometimes I feel like I am speaking another language to most people, and, for that matter, sometimes I feel like I do not belong on this planet.

--I want to try new things together, as long as it is only a woman and I, in a serious, long term relationship. Open minded, and willing to try, and explore together is important. I stayed with many women who were closed minded in the past, often control freaks, and I refuse to repeat it. I am not against a woman who just has little/no experience with things, as long as she is willing to learn together. A hint is to look up all 10 different kinds of female orgasms.

--I hope to say this and be understood properly, but, one very important thing with me, relating to a relationship, is that the woman takes the relationship just as serious as her job, if not more seriously. Look at the marriage statistics, for example, and you will find that many good relationships fall apart when one partner chooses to prioritize with their "career' over their partner. I learned the hard way when I had my own computer business from 2003 to 2005, as I could not find anyone I wanted to date during that time. I was not available, and my effort went into my business mostly. I want a woman who will choose me as the most important thing in her life, as I will do the same, in return.

--I am always confused as to why the women who I like the most, and who like me the most, live outside of Florida, mostly living in NY, CA, TX, and Europe. Also, why do women under 50 miles from me refuse to answer my emails sometimes, (not always), yet, all day and night I get emails from south FL, and farther away. How does that make sense at all???

--I am monogamous, and, I am sexual, and only want the same from a woman. I love affection, and attention, and passion in any/all forms, both giving and receiving, but, never sharing that with two women, or more.

--Sex, monogamy, and dedication go together always in my mind. If you are only looking for "friends", that is totally fine with me, BUT, don't get flirty, and sexual in conversation, and then state that you only want "friends", as that sounds more like "friends with benefits" to me, and people usually want several "friends" like that.
If you cannot be dedicated to one man at a time, when sexual, you are not my type for a relationship. We can be only friends.

--I need a woman who is PERFECTLY FINE dating a man my age, and even though I look much younger at times, that is my age. If you are not PERFECTLY FINE dating a man my age, please don't list that age on your profile. Finally, MONEY should not adjust your age range acceptance whatsoever, in my opinion. For example, my preferred age range is up to 38, and if some rich woman who is 45 or older emails me, I am still NOT interested.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.


--You read my WHOLE PROFILE, BORN A WOMAN, AND MONOGAMOUS, _AND_ at least one more of the following are true for you:

This is huge for me, as I do not mind if you live far away, but, if you are NOT willing to meet sometime, somewhat soon, it doesn't sound like you are serious in your search for both a good relationship, and, a good friendship. I believe in fairness, so, we should both have effort to see one another.

--You DO NOT smoke more than 1 or 2 times a day, even better if you are not a smoker at all.

--You know what humor means!! I run from cold, moody women.

--I visited your profile, and you noticed, and saw my profile and liked something!!

--You are looking for friends, and/or you are looking for a long term relationship!

--You are N O T looking for a sugar daddy!!!

--You were born a WOMAN!!!

--You listen to trance/techno, or hardrock/metal, or classical, or all of them!!

--You like men with long hair!!!

--You are totally MONOGAMOUS, (yes, I said it more than once because I am contacted by non monogamous women DAILY and it gets old getting emails like "Oh, are you sure you would not do a 3some with my girlfriend and I?" and "Hey, I am married, but, my husband is never home, would you come over?").

--Crazy how I have to say this, but, I will. You NEVER used to be an escort, or, a prostitute. I am monogamous, and not into swinging, and multiple partners, no matter your reason(s). Why would you think that I would be OK with dating someone like that? There are many OTHER men out there for you who will like it, I am sure.

--You are NOT attracted to, into, or, "all about", some "gangsters", "gang-bangers", "thugs", "wanna-be rappers" who think it is cool to sell drugs, and "ride dirty", and are "pimps", and call women "hoes", and "whores", and "bitches". If you like men like that, WE WILL NOT GET ALONG AT ALL. YOU HAVE 1,000,000s OF MEN WHO ARE LIKE THAT, ...ASIDE FROM ME. I AM NOT INTERESTED!!!

--You DO NOT take medication for being: Bi Polar, Manic Depressive, Schizophrenic, Schizo Affective, or have any psychosis whatsoever. Please forgive me for this, but, I tried to date a women many years ago, who had one of these conditions, and it ended up bad.

--You are open minded, and educated, and enjoy learning, and/or going to college, and experiencing life.

--You love many types of DIFFERENT music, not just what is on TV/RADIO, and are OK with music like this: