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danb1108

34 / M / Gay / Single

San Jose, California

His Details

Last Online
May 19
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Scorpio but it doesn’t matter
Education
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Offspring
Might want kids
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Professional white guy in south San Jose looking for dates and a potential LTR in the Bay Area.

I moved from the East Coast in 2000 when I enlisted in the Navy. My first tour of duty was in San Diego. I have been to Hawaii, Australia, China, Singapore, Thailand, the Seychelles and many middle eastern ports. After I left the Navy, I decided to move to the Bay Area. I currently work as a Senior Route Analyst, which I basically weather route ships around the world.

I am HIV+, but healthy and undetectable. I enjoy going to the gym, traveling, camping, weekend road trips, long walks, movies, reading, museums, etc. I enjoy evenings at home with a nice dinner and watching a movie on the couch. I am just your typical, average guy looking for something meaningful and someone to cuddle with when watching movies.

Monogamy means a lot to me and I hope to find the same in a partner. I am mostly attracted to masculine guys under 45(white/latino) who are active during the day, but enjoy quiet nights at home. I am attracted to men that take care of themselves mentally and physically.
What I’m doing with my life
Working hard and creating positivity through my life. I enjoy being around other people that are positive. Negative people have no place for me.
I’m really good at
Making people smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite movies are: The Hours, Pulp Fiction, Kill Bill, Milk, There Will Be Blood, Finding Nemo - and anything scary. For 2012, I think the best movie was 'Looper'

My favorite TV Shows: American Horror Story, Family Guy, American Dad, Top Chef

My favorite music: I guess you can say that I am a Top 40 lover. I like anything with a beat.

My favorite foods: Pasta, Sushi and anything spicy.

My favorite books: I love reading biographies especially about Old Hollywood. I have biographies about Howard Hughes, Sal Mineo, 70's cinema(not really old Hollywood), etc. Also 'The Perks of Being a Wallflower'(actually read it when it first came out), 'Of Mice and Men', 'The F**k-Up', 'Hearts of Atlantis'.
The six things I could never do without
1. My family
2. My friends
3. My house
4. My dog
5. My car
6. My health
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time thinking about living a healthy lifestyle with a potential masculine partner.
On a typical Friday night I am
I recently got a new dog. Friday nights typically consist of me cuddling with her on the couch and watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am HIV+. I am healthy and undetectable. This is the most private thing about myself so I have no secrets.
I’m looking for
  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 27–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Are you a masculine guy under 45? Are you comfortable dating someone with HIV? Do you believe in monogamy? Are you focused on making yourself a better person including your health? If you answer yes to all of the above, please message me and I look forward to hearing from me.