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My favorite writer is Samuel Delany. He originally wrote pulpy
science fiction, but then he started writing more literary science
fiction that won big awards, and he also writes some great
nonfiction about his life as a queer black man. Alternative
sexualities and cooperative living show up in most of his work,
which makes me really happy.
I also enjoy Orson Scott Card's stuff, but his personal politics
I love autobiographical queer comics like Erika Moen, Joey Sayers,
Allison Bechdel, and Ariel Schrag.
My favorite directors are Wes Anderson, Miyazaki, and John Waters.
I also really like the movies Party Monster, Igby Goes Down, and
Hedwig and the Angry Inch.
I like indie pop rock folk.
I enjoy eating nice food at restaurants I can't really afford too
much. I love sushi and Thai and Indian and nice cocktails and pizza
and cheap drink specials and brunch and pastries.