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dancc

25 Chicago, IL Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–32
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 22
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Administration
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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When I was 16 years old, I dropped out of Jewish boarding school to start college. When I was 18, I took a semester off from college to live with American web comic artists in Mexico. Over the last five years, I've been a delivery driver, a warehouse manager, and a sex toy salesman. Sometimes I still use my English degree, for writing stories and stuff. I also have a massage therapy license.

I have a girlfriend, but she's pretty busy with grad school and her husband. I'm into honest non-monogamy. I'm not looking for anything too particular: anything from a new friend to a serious, long-term partner. I enjoy talking about this stuff, if you're curious!
What I’m doing with my life
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By day I'm an AmeriCorps VISTA doing a year of national service as a Volunteer and Outreach Coordinator at a transitional house for homeless people with HIV. I'm really excited about what our organization does, and less excited about my job there.

By night I do tech for a small theater, mostly lights and sound for sketch shows.

By other nights and weekends I'm a psychology student.

By odd hours here and there I'm a sex and relationships blogger and educator. My dream is to do adult sex education as a full-time job. I'm particularly interested in alternative sexualities like polyamory and kink.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite writers: Samuel Delany, Orson Scott Card, Joey Comeau, J.T. LeRoy, Vonnegut, Bukowski, A.M. Homes

Favorite comic artists: Ariel Schrag, Jeff Jaques, Erika Moen, Joey Sayers, Jeffrey Brown, John Campbell

Favorite directors: John Waters, Miyazaki, Michel Gondry, Charlie Kaufman, Wes Anderson, Kubrick, Kevin Smith

Other favorite movies: Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Party Monster, FLCL, The Maxx, Igby Goes Down, American Beauty

Food: Sushi! Indian! Thai! Pesto pasta! Cheese! Going out to eat when I can't afford to is my biggest vice.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I always have my phone, wallet, keys, and a pen with me. I usually have a book and notebook too.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm pretty confused about what exactly I want to be doing when my current year of service is up. Maybe grad school? Maybe hacking together a freelance income from tech, massage, and writing? Maybe some traveling?

I'm always thinking about new projects and things I want to do too. Things I want to write about, businesses I want to start, stuff I want to learn about.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I love hanging out with some friends, at home or at a bar, or maybe going out to a show or something.
You should message me if
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If we're a 90%+ match and you're down with non-monogamy, I want to hear from you. I'd probably be excited to get coffee or a drink too.