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25 M Chicago, IL

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Last Online
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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I live in a co-op in Rogers Park with a half dozen other people. I love having people around, so I'm really excited about cooperative living.

Until recently I was working at a sex shop, but now I'm taking a month off before starting a new job. I'm excited that summer is coming up. I'd like to get out and have some adventures.

I'm not looking for anything monogamous. Ideally, though, I'd like to find something serious and long-term. But really I'm pretty open to whatever.
What I’m doing with my life
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Soon I'm going to start a position with AmeriCorps! I'm going to be doing volunteer and outreach coordinating with an organization that provides housing to people who were homeless and are living with chronic illness.

I also do some writing and blogging and sex and relationships, and sometimes do presentations on that stuff. And I'm taking a statistics class. I'm always thinking about other projects too.

I'm trying to figure out what the long-term goal is. Maybe a job working in a non-profit? Maybe going to grad school for psychology or public health? Maybe opening some kind of sexuality center? Maybe starting some other kind of business?
I’m really good at
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I happen to be a licensed massage therapist, which I'm pretty good at, and a certified crisis counselor, which I'm pretty mediocre at. I also make some really good cinnamon cookies.
The first things people usually notice about me
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This girl told me once that at first she thought I was just a nerdy hipster boy, and then she decided I was actually smart and interesting. Lately more folks have been reading me as gay. Maybe it is this new haircut and these shiny jeans people keep thinking might be leather.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite writer is Samuel Delany. He originally wrote pulpy science fiction, but then he started writing more literary science fiction that won big awards, and he also writes some great nonfiction about his life as a queer black man. Alternative sexualities and cooperative living show up in most of his work, which makes me really happy.

I also enjoy Orson Scott Card's stuff, but his personal politics are deplorable.

I love autobiographical queer comics like Erika Moen, Joey Sayers, Allison Bechdel, and Ariel Schrag.

My favorite directors are Wes Anderson, Miyazaki, and John Waters. I also really like the movies Party Monster, Igby Goes Down, and Hedwig and the Angry Inch.

I like indie pop rock folk.

I enjoy eating nice food at restaurants I can't really afford too much. I love sushi and Thai and Indian and nice cocktails and pizza and cheap drink specials and brunch and pastries.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Projects I want to do, gender and sex, how medical professionals can be better trained to work with diverse sexualities, the psychology of habit and behavior and productivity and how it can be better harnessed to make more good things happen.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I pay way too much attention to how many likes and followers I get on my Tumblr.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 21–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
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