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42 San Francisco, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29–44
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:48am
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I hung up my dance boots recently. It was a good run, but time to move on. Just finished making a documentary film. Do you like Werner Herzog? My favorite filmmaker. What do we seek? It is that ecstatic truth, that story that lifts us up and infuses our life with a sense of ecstatic connection. I am a bit of a flow junkie. If you know what that means, we should definitely connect.
What I’m doing with my life
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Exploring, traveling, writing, cooking, reading, serving (volunteering) and more, pursuing my ecstatic truth.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking. I am a master chef. And dancing. I am very good at that too. When I cook or I dance I feel light and free.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a dark sense of humor and you can find me sometimes brooding and sometimes laughing
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Currently, michel Houlebecq's elementary particles, (very dark but good). Chogyam Trungpa's writing on tantra. But the list of favorite books is endless. I recently gave away all my books to the San Francisco public library. I figured, I don't need to keep them, I'd rather share them.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, morning coffee, good books, cinema, interesting outfits, new ideas.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What will the world be like in the future. What can I do with myself right now. What is the next step. Where can I travel to next that will open my mind.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
cooking, dancing, sleeping, meditating, reflecting, learning.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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it wouldn't be private then would it?
You should message me if
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you want to know more about yourself and you enjoy warm people and good food. Rate me nicely if you wish to (4 or more stars and okcupid sends an email) and when I see the email from okcupid I'll write you a nice thoughtful email and we can see if we have anything in common.