I believe in dreams. I believe in making dreams come true. What are your dreams and fantasies? Do you want to be involved with someone who cherishes your dreams and fantasies, wants to hear about them, and will find ways to make them come true? I've always dreamed of kissing my girlfriend on the streets of Paris. I've always wanted dance with my girlfriend, barefoot in the living room. I've always wanted to take off in a car with my girlfriend for several days without any idea of where we'd end up. I've dreamed of meeting someone, having her tell me about her dreams and fantasies, and then setting out on making them happen. I've wanted to hear about dreams of which I've never dreamed, of fantasies I've never imagined. It's the spontaneous, unexpected and unimagined jewels of time that come from actualized dreams that I cherish.
I am a competitive swing dancer. Many swing dance competitions are "Jack and Jills." That type of competition is when the music and partners are random draws and you don't who you are going to get or what the music is until you actually start the competitive dance. My favorite part of swing dancing is when I draw someone in competition I've never met or know anything about. I love how the experience unfolds, it is a journey of discovery on multiple levels. Dancing is a metaphor for life and relationships, and I cherish that sort of experience in life as much as I do in dancing.
I believe in a balance of compatibility and complementary traits. It's the compatibilities that make a relationship easy, but it is the differences between two people that make them step outside the box and grow.
Certain aspects of a relationship require compatibility. I don't want to be separated from my girlfriend by a distance sufficient that seeing each other no more than once a week would be the reality. I believe the woman I seek will be someone I want to see more than a couple of days a week. I believe the woman I seek will be active, fit, and seeking someone with whom to share an active lifestyle. So many of my dreams involve getting out and exploring all sorts of aspects of the universe in which we dwell. However, that said, the woman I seek may have vastly different political, spiritual, philosophical, and emotional beliefs and responses to our world. I will want to know about those differences and I will cherish them also.
I want someone with whom to share my dreams. I want a woman who is willing to share her dreams with me. Are you that woman?