I have a lot to offer in a relationship with the right woman. I am
tall (6'2"), lean and fit. I am a former competitive athlete most
of my life, and I am still in excellent shape. I am also a wannabee
swing dancer, so if that interested you also, we could learn
together. I have had training from a CMT if you like massages, and
I am a great listener. I am told I am funny (hopefully in a
deliberate/intended sort of way.)
What I’m doing with my life
I am helping to raise my 4 year old granddaughter, and I am trying
to find ways to have fun, like learning to swing dance. I
especially like the novelty of Jack and Jill competitions, where
the partners and songs are random. I enjoy experiencing the
spontaneous and unexpected areas in life also.
I’m really good at
Mathematics, figuring things out, and understanding things I see. I
am very good at reading body language. I am very good at listening.
The first things people usually notice about me
I guess that I am tall and slender or athletic. Most people think I
am smart, but that is only true for certain areas.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite book is "Illusions" by Richard Bach. I love
entertaining movies, at the moment I might pick "August Rush" as my
favorite movie. I love dance performances and musicals, ballet,
etc. My favorite music performer is/was Laura Nyro. I love
vegetarian Indian food.
The six things I could never do without
I don't think there's anything I couldn't do without. I'd miss my
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The dynamics of relationships, and why so few people are attracted
to the type of person they say they want. I often wonder why people
are unwilling (or unable) to break unwanted cycles of attraction.
If you wanted to contact me simply to discuss subjects like this, I
would be happy to do so.
On a typical Friday night I am
trying to dance
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I really like and respect women who base their attraction to
someone on intuition and what they feel in their heart. I am really
turned off by anyone who bases attraction on a learned activity
such as the first kiss or how they dress. People learn to do things
differently in part to make their significant others happy.
You should message me if
If you are someone who responds spontaneously and intuitively to
the world ... or ... You should respond if you have unfulfilled
dreams for your life and you want to meet someone who will cherish
your dreams and help you make them come true.