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54 M Newcastle, CA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 15
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, and might want more
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I grew up in L.A., attended UC Santa Barbara, studied Environmental Studies and Biology, settled soulfully on acreage in Newcastle. I am looking to change the focus of my life from career and financial security to interpersonal depth, relationships and new experiences (art, music, culture, etc.). I have joy in nature down pat. My soul feels alive and free in nature. I believe in courage not machismo. I have had my share of testosterone laden moments but I want to live open hearted, not in ego. I believe I am an 'old soul'. I am confident enough to be kind and caring with a funloving rather silly sense of humor. I want to re-connect w people that can drop their facade and connect on a genuine interpersonal level. That is what life and relationships are really about. I was raised Catholic but find myself interested in many forms of spirituality. I believe I am quite open minded and I am certainly open hearted. I am looking for a Radiant, kind, natural, open hearted woman with spiritual depth who can converse below the surface. Your beauty comes from within. Pretty and sexy may capture my eye but wholesome, loving, kind and gentle creates the radiance that captures my heart. I usually see the radiance I speak of in people of spiritual depth. Maybe you find it in your yoga practice or maybe its from a formal religion but the depth is definitely there.

My brain is fiscally conservative but my heart is liberal. I believe in REI, Trader Joes and recycling. I love living in the country and the vibe of Berkeley and Nevada City. Since I commute to my job in Sacramento only 5 times per month I will have great flexibility in where I live when my son leaves for college. I clean up nicely but prefer hanging out with authentic people in shorts and sandals or boots and jeans versus dressing up in a suit and tie to impress someone. I am equally comfortable in a saddle or in a drum circle :) Substance, simplicity and humor is enough for me. That being said, no I don't wear the pink panties to work, really. Don't act surprised, I did mention a rather silly sense of humor.

I think meeting people online is a wonderful tool. It is not a panacea for finding that special person but most people are interesting in their own way. If I want to meet you it is because I don't believe in trying to get a true feel for someone through a pile of emails. I believe you learn much more about your compatability in 15 minutes of face to face interaction. I am easy to talk to and meeting shouldn't be scary or difficult. It is just an opportunity to introduce yourself to someone who probably has some interesting things to share.

I don't know who would want my photos but stranger things have happened so:
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What I’m doing with my life
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Learning a Lot about myself and others
Marveling at the journey
Looking for my next lesson
Enjoying my 18 y.o. son who will be off to college too soon.
I am excited and nervous about the blank pages I get to fill in.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding a Way!
Substantive Sharing
Fixing STUFF
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, my laugh and that I chew with my mouth closed
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Jack London Books
I have a fondness for the Horse Whisperer.
The musical The Man of La Moncha, To Dream the Impossible Dream
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I could never do without LISTING MORE THAN SIX THINGS

A Radiant Woman
Something to look forward to
Emotional Intimacy
Physical Intimacy
Mother Nature
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to live a fulfilling, emotionally satisfying life
How to keep love alive and growing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Listening to Music
Flailing to Music
Wishing I could lead like that other guy
Wishing I could play the guitar
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I still ride the shopping cart when it is full of groceries.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 45–53
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
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You believe I have described you in my profile