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54 M Newcastle, CA

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 40–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Oct 20
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I grew up in L.A., attended UC Santa Barbara, studied Environmental Studies and Biology. I wanted to be a Wildlife Biologist but ended up in the Fire Service and settled soulfully on acreage in Newcastle. I am looking to change the focus of my life from career and financial security to interpersonal depth, relationships and new experiences (art, music, culture, etc.). I make my living in the Fire Service but I have a strong aversion to macho b.s. I am looking for people that have a different perspective on life than my own as I grew up in a wonderful although Catholic and somewhat conservative family. I have grown much more spiritual, liberal and intuitive with age and life experiences. I want to share, have fun and connect with authentic, open, non-judgmental people that are trying to better themselves as human beings. The older I get the more I realize how unique we are and I want to open myself to those differences and the common threads that link us. I am looking for insight, connection, banter, mutual support, laughter and conversation. If you have a unique perspective I would love it if you shared it with me but only if you have a good heart, good intentions and can speak with depth. I too have interesting perspectives to share. If you are curious about life and why the universe does the things it does you will probably enjoy conversing with me. In fact, I suggest talking on the phone to get a feel for whether we really have interesting perspectives to offer each other. If not, that's ok, there are plenty of other mysteries in the world that need attention.

If you visit my profile and don't say hi don't worry about it. It's not like your crushing my confidence..............MUCH !
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Learning a Lot about myself and others
Marveling at the journey
Looking for my next lesson
Navigating an empty nest
I am excited and nervous about the blank pages I get to fill in.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding a Way!
Substantive Sharing
Fixing STUFF
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes, my laugh and that I chew with my mouth closed when my mom is around
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Jack London Books
The Power of Now
The Horse Whisperer.
The Man of La Moncha, To Dream the Impossible Dream
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Richard Simmons workout video
Denture cream
My McDonalds Job
Integrity in the mirror
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to live a fulfilling, emotionally satisfying life
How to be authentic so others feel comfortable enough to drop their guard and be their true selves
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Listening to Music
Flailing to Music
Wishing I had purchased a Richard Simmons dance video
Wishing I could play the guitar and have groupies
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I still ride the shopping cart when it is full of groceries.
I prefer women friends to men because they tend to be more authentic.
You should message me if
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My profile resonates with you.
You are self aware enough to know you are looking for the same things in life and you have the courage to talk with an open heart.

I don't know who would want my photos but stranger things have happened (so I am told) and I don't want my underware photo going viral so:
WARNING: Any individual institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications