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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 48–59
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Jun 1
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I grew up in L.A., attended UC Santa Barbara, studied Environmental Studies and Biology. I wanted to be a Wildlife Biologist but ended up in the Fire Service. I have changed the focus of my life from career and financial security to interpersonal depth, relationships and new experiences (art, music, culture, etc.). I make my living in the Fire Service and I believe in courage but I don't believe in machismo. I like humble people that know their value and have the courage to walk to the tune of their very own drummer so that I and others can learn from your experiences. I have grown much more spiritual, liberal and intuitive with age and life experiences. Sharing, having fun, supporting others and bettering yourself as a human being is important to you. You believe in insight, connection, banter, laughter and shared wisdom. The older I get the more I realize how unique we are and I want to open myself to those differences and the common threads that link us. I have no interest in "hooking up", I want to be of service, create connection and gain wisdom. There is sooo much to learn and I want to share the best of what I learn with my children. If you have a unique perspective I would love it if you shared it with me assuming you have a good heart, good intentions, a sense of humor and can speak with depth. If you are curious about life and why the universe does the things it does, we will probably have a great conversation. If you have never wondered about these things we are probably looking for different things. If my profile seems unconventional to you I don't mind because I know who I am, I walk to the tune of my own drummer and I would rather be authentic than conventional. I hope you feel the same.

Ok, enough serious stuff. The dirty jokes are below.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Learning a Lot about myself and others
Marveling at the journey
Looking for my next lesson
Navigating an empty nest
I am excited and nervous about the blank pages I get to fill in.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding a Way!
Substantive Sharing
Thinking outside the box
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes, my laugh and that I chew with my mouth closed when my mom is around
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Jack London Books
The Power of Now
The Horse Whisperer.
The Man of La Moncha, To Dream the Impossible Dream
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Richard Simmons workout video
Denture cream
My McDonalds Job
Integrity in the mirror
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to live a fulfilling, emotionally satisfying life
How to be authentic so others feel comfortable enough to drop their guard and be their true selves
How to surround myself with wonderful, genuine, loving people that want to make the world a better place
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Listening to Music
Flailing to Music
Wishing I had purchased a Richard Simmons dance video
Wishing I could play the guitar and have groupies
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I still ride the shopping cart when it is full of groceries.
I don't believe everything I think
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You root for the underdog
My profile resonates with you.
You are self aware enough to know you are looking for the same things in life and you have the courage to talk with an open heart.
You aren't embarrassed you read all the way down here looking for a dirty joke

I don't know who would want my photos but stranger things have happened (so I am told) and I don't want my underware photo going viral so:
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