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danceswithshoes

26 / F / bisexual / Available

Hartford, Connecticut

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Ethnicity
Black
Height
5' 1" (1.54m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Rather Not Say
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am seriously awesome, weird, and random.

My Self-Summary

Can you really sum yourself up in the space of a box and sound impressive? I'll try. I am a pretty happy go lucky person. I love anything that has to do with performing arts. I love my books. I like to go out and be social and have as little drama as possible. I really love to dance. I've been taking class for about 4 years and I can't get enough. I love to travel, sometimes it just feels good to pick and get the hell out of your town.

I'm trying to write a play but I always stop in the middle and think of another idea that I would Needless to say, it's going a little rough.

This is important. Although it says that I am bisexual, I have no interest in meeting men. I already have a man at home who is ready to carry and willing to carry out all of my heterosexual needs. I'm all about the ladies.No really, I am all about the LADIES. And I should probably also say that I'm not here to find people for threesomes.

What I’m doing with my life

Breathing, in and out...every day. Trying to find joy in everything. Except clowns. I'm also trying to finish college. I've had to take time off a few times, but I'm back on the right track. Like most of the country I'm also looking for a job. I'm sure you can imagine how well it's going. In the meantime, I've been volunteering on and off at various places.

I’m really good at

Dancing, getting sucked into TV marathons, breathing (please refer to 'what i'm doing with my life') eating. Going to Starbucks. Sounding out the big words. Reading the book before seeing the movie it's been made into. Coming up with ideas to improve myself. Finding things that don't belong to me. Drinking. Writing in my journal. Shopping.

The first things people usually notice about me

Wow. Maybe my lips:)That could just be because I'm always putting on chapstick.

I guess it would depend on the person. I'm hoping that whatever they notice is something that appeals to them.

I'm also kind of tiny.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

All of the Harry Potter Books,Gone with the Wind, The Secret Life of Bees, Little Women, Roots, Leaves of Grass, The Color Purple, Thier Eyes Were Watching God, The Bell Jar, The Bunny Suicides, The Life and Loves of a She-Devil, Memoirs of a Geisha, Flowers in the Attic, The Four Agreements, Rubyfruit Jungle. The Joy Luck Club. Those are just a few that I love. I really love movies(I'll spare you the list, but Johnny Depp is on it a lot...so are musicals) and am pretty open to anything I haven't seen yet. Music...just about anything EXCEPT techno(sorry). Even when I'm drunk it's just not that good.

Food. Oh, I got excited just typing the word. I really love to eat. Tacos, pizza, french fries, I could go on for a few days. I'll sum it up- that whole chewing and swallowing thing, always welcome. Wine is always welcome too.

The six things I could never do without

My Family and Friends
My Glasses
Chapstick
Music
Dance
Food

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Probably everything that I shouldn't be thinking about at the time. My mind tends to wonder, but always comes back:)

Where I want to go in the world and how I'm going to get there. Haven't figured it out but I'm sure it'll be legal.

On a typical Friday night I am

Dancing! Or having a beer with my roomies. Building a fort out of covers and pillows, but only sometimes. Maybe having coffee, or wishing that I was doing something cool.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I rock out in the empty rows of the grocery store.
I also like to knit.

You should message me if

You like meeting new people, start a lot of conversations with,"what if...". love dancing, are curious about the world, or if you want to kill some time with a random stranger.