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43 F Tampa, FL

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5′ 4″ (1.63m)
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Strictly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
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English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I will dance in the rain (and anywhere else), and I break out in song at random moments. Music is my nepenthe.

My "probably shouldn't say that out loud" filter burned out years ago. My inner monologue is almost always outer. (I do manage to control it for limited amounts of time when absolutely necessary, such as business luncheons or an office Christmas party.)

I don't feel trapped or threatened by gender or relationship roles or expectations.

I flirt early and often.

I am well acquainted with my inner child. We get together on a regular basis to play hopscotch and make silly jokes. Considering the types of jokes, my inner child is apparently a 12 year old boy.

I don't believe in soulmates, happily ever after, or "the one." I think one can love multiple people in a lifetime, and sometimes at the same time. That does not mean, however, that I want to be with someone who is having sex with lots of other people (though I care nothing for the number of previous partners, and I'm open to the idea of multiple partners, as long as there is honesty and agreement). And I do not get involved with married men. Period. I'm not judging, it's just my own personal choice.
What I’m doing with my life
Following my passions. That includes preparing for a national powerlifting competition, doing a lot of swing dancing, and sailing whenever the weather is nice. And trying to meet someone with whom to be passionate.
I’m really good at
Defending the indefensible. Finding the fun in the mundane. Remaining calm when others would panic. Initiating adventures. Occasionally being an insufferable know-it-all.

On a more serious note, and without trying to sound pretentious, I am above average at a large variety of things.
The first things people usually notice about me
Let's see... What do guys look at first? Yeah, probably that. ;-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite books are non-fiction. I love to learn new things, and I also like to see how other people think. I read books on all of my hobbies, I read books about faraway places, and I read books about how to pick up women. Yeah, I'm just strange like that. I also like some science fiction, particularly fantasy stuff. I like to read about history, and I read biographies. I fell in love with Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy trilogy in my teens, and I still love to read it. Some favorite authors include Philip K. Dick, Douglas Adams, and Margaret Atwood. I really want to like Ayn Rand; I think she had some very interesting ideas, but she was a horrible novelist.

Okay, I admit it. I also read the occasional romance novel. Always historical romance. Usually from the Regency period. Yes, I know it's corny, and yes, it's sometimes like soft-core porn, but it's fun fantasy.

I like comedic movies, and sometimes documentaries. I also love film noir and psychological thrillers. And need I say that anything by Monty Python is genius!

And theatre! There are few things more fun than seeing a live musical on a rainy Sunday afternoon!

Firefly was one of the best TV shows ever. Other than that, I watch the occasional detective show, like Elementary, Castle, or Sherlock. I don't watch a lot of TV.

Music: Everything. Okay, maybe not gangsta rap, just because of the violence. But classical, blues, classic rock, jazz (but not that easy listening jazz, so much), swing, rockabilly, some punk rock, pop, hip hop, Latin, and even country (though I'll change the station when the "god and country" song comes on). I'll pretty much listen to anything I can dance to, and some things I can't. Pink Floyd, Queen, Pink, Joan Jett, and Lords of Acid are favorites, as well as The Who, The Beatles, The Rolling Stones, The Kinks, Van Halen, and The Clash. I also like 80s pop, and big band music.

I like food. Italian food, Mexican food, Thai food. I like all kinds of food! I work out so I can eat. I'll never be one of those people who can subsist on plain oatmeal and boiled chicken breast just to have single digit bodyfat percentage. I'm also not obese, but that's only because I stay active.
The six things I could never do without
A sense of humor.

The warmth of the sun on most days of the year.

The internet, with its plethora of data and information.

Music to dance and sing to.

Lip gloss. I'm addicted to the stuff!

My big, comfy memory foam bed, with its 1000 count cotton sateen sheets. Mmmm... sleeeeeep.

Chocolate is good, too. ;-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything. All the time. All at the same time! I only *appear* to have random thoughts to those who don't think as fast as I do. I also make a lot of obscure references and horrible innuendo. If you have no idea what I'm talking about, just nod and smile.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a narcissist. I love myself. On a regular basis.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Any or all of the following apply:

~ You're a mostly sane guy or girl of almost any age who has had adventures (or wants to), who has stories to tell, who is driven by passion/ambition/conscience.

~ You're a person who seeks experiences outside of the mainstream--whether it's music, travel, food, extreme sports, swing dancing, or revolution.

~ You would like to make a new friend (which could potentially turn into more). If you want a loyal partner who will stay beside you through everything, but doesn't shed or drool. Not much, anyway.

~ You'd like to meet up, have a drink, and discuss politics, religion, or just about anything else. If you are a libertarian or anarchist, and an atheist, we'd have a great time. Also, I tend to get along well with people who are in the sales profession, because I get it.

~ You want to rose tint my world.

~ You are attracted to me because I'm sexy, but also enticed by my intelligence. If you're not put off by my zany sense of humor. Also, you're impressed by my sesquipedalian verbosity. (And why isn't sesquipedalian in my computer's dictionary? Doesn't everyone use that word in everyday conversation??) You don't mind a girl who's a little naughty.