Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am very young for my age - most people guess I am in my 50s. I
initiate and am in charge of a lot of activities and projects, but
I also love to lay back and let other people take the lead. I have
had a lot of long term relationships, which could be described as
serial monogamy. But I have always felt that I am not basically a
monogamous person. I am not a jealous person and I feel that now I
am looking for a more open kind of relationship. I am pretty
flirtatious, but actually also a bit shy about meeting people. I
have never really dated but have always formed relationships
through shared activities. So my situation now is that most of the
people I am closest to, through traveling singing projects, are
under 30, so I am looking for other ways to get to know people
closer to my own age.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a choir conductor and I direct world music singing camps,
especially for teenagers. I travel a lot with my singing performing
groups, and I plan and organize these tours. I have a very big
house which is occasionally filled with people gathered for special
musical projects - I love hosting groups, and I do so with very low
stress. Other times the house is very quiet and I have lots of
alone time. I don't put much importance on private property and I
believe places and things and resources are there to be shared. I
do contra dancing and English country dancing and I lead Balkan
folk dancing at every opportunity.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
dancing, singing, cooking, traveling, organizing, planning events,
listening, frisbee, lovemaking.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm shy, even-tempered, unflappable, observant, sparkling eyes,
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Monsieur Lazar; The Lives of Others, anything by Ingemar
Bergman; Music: Medieval and renaissance and early baroque vocal
music, Ensemble Organum, Collegium 1704, Corsican traditional
polyphony, Balkan music, South African singing. Food: Whole grains,
stir fries, Indian, Thai, cabbage and apples, good coffee, good
beer, good hearty bread, cheesecake, occasional steak, ...
The six things I could never do without
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dancing, singing, lovemaking, good friends, email, comfortable
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
future plans, travel arrangements, cooking, singing projects,
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
getting ready for a weekend activity, or folk dancing, or working
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