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38 Lansing, MI Woman


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  • Ages 25-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 13, 2013
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Other and it’s important
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has dogs and Has cats
My self-summary
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I am: an artist, a pagan, bisexual, and polyamorous. I am a farmer and an at-home mom. I work to make a supportive and creative environment for my two girls. As an artist I work in various mediums including jewelry, environmental art, acrylic painting and ritual arts. I feel it's important for me to push myself to be the best that I can be so I can set a good example of womanhood for my daughters. I spent my twenties learning about who I am and coming to accept and even love that person. I'm spending my thirties focusing on the things and people I love.

I am a very home centered person. I love to be surrounded by my friends and chosen family. I like to cook good, healthy food, go for walks in the woods, and work with my hands. My health, both physically and spiritually, is very important to me. Diet, yoga, strength training, and meditation all support me.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am building a community for my family through druidry, art and sustainability. I see the earth as sacred and I try to live every day in accordance with that knowledge. I grow healthy food. I create beautiful things. I like to be helpful to those I love. I am very grateful for my life and I try to live my life in awareness of the gifts I have been given. Life is beautiful.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading obscure books, making my loved ones smile, gardening, drawing and painting. Being introspective.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile and my laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite books: yes, books are my favorite.

Okay here's a "short list":

Little Women by Louisa May Alcott
The Secret Garden by Francis Burnett
The Spell of the Sensuous by David Abram
The Collected Poems of Wendell Barry
Dreams Underfoot by Charles DeLint
The Moon is a Harsh Mistress by Robert Heinlein
The Norton Anthology of Poetry
Wyrdwalkers by Raven Kaldera
The Sandman series by Neil Gaiman
Strangers in Paradise by Terry Moore
The Wheel of Time series by Robert Jordan
The Fionavar Tapestry Series by Guy Gavriel Kay
The Four Season Harvest by Eliot Coleman
Of Gods and Men by Algirdas Greimas
Wild Fermentation by Sandor Ellix Katz
Harry Potter (duh)
The Home Herbal by Penelope Ody
Dreaming the Dark by Starhawk

I like books.

Okay on to movies, in no particular order:

Love Actually
Groundhog's Day
Pan's Labyrinth
The Empire Strikes Back
The Princess Bride
Brave (what can I say? I have girls)
American Beauty

Music these days:

The Decemberists
Florence + The Machine
Lady Gaga
Seth Bernard and Daisy May Erlewine
Kings of Leon

When I was young:

Soul Asylum
Fiona Apple
The Cranberries

And always:

Johnny Cash
Tom Waits

Woah, this never ends. Okay, food now.

I like food from all over the world, Indian, Ethiopian, Mexican, Middle Eastern. It's all good. I have food allergies to soy and some other stuff, so I have to be careful. I eat mostly a paleo diet these days. It's been really healthy for me and my family. Always we strive to eat locally, know our farmers, or grow our own.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, my family, sex, fire, trees, art.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to build a religion from the ground up. How to make my life more sustainable and meaningful. How to live my values more fully and authentically.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am at home with my poly pod and family. Life is good.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am addicted to Pinterest.
You should message me if
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