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dandydan40

74 Santa Rosa, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 50–78
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 27
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Technology
Status
Single
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a man of great compassion with a quick wit which I mostly use judiciously. I have two grown and very talented daughters. I enjoy helping others and being a friend. I was significantly involved in volunteer organizations for many years but have cut back a bit on this recently. But then I just took on a new project of fundraising for a small, local non-profit.

I had my own computer technology business for 30+ years.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am selling solar electric systems and doing energy consulting. I very much enjoy this as it matches with my values regarding conservation of resources and a need to do something about climate change. This is where I am spending most of my time these days.

I am also working as an IT consultant and doing computer repair and support for individuals and businesses. This is a re-invention of myself in the computer business in which I spent most of my career.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Open and honest communication. Being a friend and helpmate. Kissing. Information technology.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, my smile, and the fact that I have a nearly full head of hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Anything by Barbara Kingsolver or Isabel Allende. Historical novels and nonfiction books as well as a wide variety of fiction are also favorites. I read Philip Gourevitch's book about the Rwanda genocide and Tom Brokaw's book The Time Of Our Lives. I read the book by Mary Tillman about her son Pat Tillman who was killed in Afghanistan by friendly fire. This is a very disturbing book, in particular the lies that were made to his family about what happened to him.

I really enjoy foreign and indie films. Avatar and the Harry Potter books and films were great. Movies that I enjoyed are Hope Springs (Meryl Streep) and Trouble With The Curve (Clint Eastwood) both of which provide good human drama. I also liked The Butler, Capt. Phillips, and Fruitvale Station (A friend of mine was in this movie). Recently saw Selma (loved it), and Whiplash (good movie but a bit dark). I love going to the movies.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family, good food, good friends, the great outdoors, laughing, passion, sex and intellectual discussion. So much for following the rules.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What a messed up world we live in and what can I do to make it a better place even in a small way. I am truly concerned for our grandchildren's generation. If I can sell more solar electric systems I feel I'm doing my part in helping the economy to become a greener, more sustainable and healthy model.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Nothing typical, it could be a movie or dinner with friends or a number of other things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll definitely pass on this question until I meet you in person. Oh yes, and I really like women and think they have had a very bad deal for a very long time.
You should message me if
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If you want to. Or you want a fun, healthy and physical relationship or a date with a down-to-earth man with solid values. Or if you like to go dancing and getting together for meals with good friends. Or you just like what you read here.