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dandydust98

33 / M / Bisexual / Single

Durham, North Carolina

His Details

Last Online
May 16
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Buddhism
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Income
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a bookmobile librarian by trade. So yes I love books! Love being a nerd, and generally have 3-5 books going at any given time (sci-fi, buddhist, poltical, etc).

My primary passion however is social justice. Right now I'm doing anti-gentrification work in Durham, but I cut my teeth organizing with queer/trans youth when i myself was a babyqueer.

I'm a transguy and while I date all genders I tend to be romantically attracted to women, particularly femmes, most often. My sexual attraction runs the gamut though, and hey who knows what'll happen when you get to know someone new.

Right now I'm pretty much looking for folks to have a good time with. Would love to stumble on dating potential/something serious, but am just trying to be open to whatever comes my way.
What I’m doing with my life
Working with books, developing a mindfulness practice, learning as much as I can about ecological justice and climate change.

I also love dogs and cats (pretty much anything little and cute) and finding new fun and adventure.
I’m really good at
Trying not to take life (or myself) too seriously and yet still living with intense purpose and passion.
The first things people usually notice about me
My mustache (or beard as the case may be) and my ridiculously loud, infectious laughter.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books--the god of small things by arundhati roy, trash by dorothy allison, subversive southerner, radio free dixie, to die for the people, poetry like bread, giovanni's room, trashy gay pulp fiction like beebo brinker or b-boy blues, also love post-apocalyptic sci-fi like the windup girl by paolo bacigalupi

Movies--dandy dust by hans scheirl, ima leave it at that for now

Shows--battlestar galactica, rupauls drag race

Music--wide range from musicals to country to r&b to pop--some faves include nina simone, dolly parton, stevie wonder, mirah, bikini kill
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Transformative organizing and generative somatics
On a typical Friday night I am
Not sure I've got a typical Friday--either working, out dancing, hanging with friends, or chilling at home with my pets.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I went to the state spelling bee in middle school and am still secretly a spelling snob.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You're excited to meet new folks and willing to take chances.