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31 M Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:17am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
The most defining aspect of my recent life is the experience I had spending a few years on the road as a tour manager for the band Kaddisfly. I've been to 47 states, met so many wonderful people, and created a wealth of memories and relationships I am grateful for. I now attend college classes searching for a more permanent direction while I enjoy my hobbies of photography, guitar, drums, and collecting vinyl records.

I can be very simple, I can be complex. I strive to be honest with all people at all times, while being sensitive to their personality and relationship to me. I cherish my good friends, of which I am thankful to have several.

Just joined a band for a the first time in far too long. Things are movin' along nicely, already a dozen songs in the works. It's so much fun. Looking forward to recording an EP and playing shows this year.

I try not to waste my words. I'm often considered a quite person in the general public, but I'm just waiting for the ideal moment.

I'm nostalgic for the 80s and 90s.

a few blogs:

What I’m doing with my life
School. Work. Enjoying music through the magic of vinyl records (not just because they are cool now, but because they just are the best). Taking photographs when I have the time. Working to improve myself in any way I can as I enter my 30s.

I think I'm going to start skateboarding again.
I’m really good at
I don't consider myself an expert at any one thing. I'm proficient in a few things. Guitar, drums, singing (I will say I consider myself pretty good at harmonizing), taking pictures, listening and giving appropriate advice. I'm a humble person, not one to boast.
The first things people usually notice about me
Seems like a trick question to me. I doubt the first thing someone notices about you is the thing they say to you. However, many people say I look like someone else.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
a dozen examples or less of each:

music: nick drake, jeff buckley, duncan sheik, deftones, far, glassjaw, silverchair, rogue wave, pinback, mos def, sigur rós, john coltrane, many more.

movies: vanilla sky, memento, anchorman, slc punk, eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, before sunrise/before sunset, garden state, i love you man, fight club, almost famous, back to the future, waking life ...

shows: six feet under, lost, entourage, freaks and geeks, undeclared, dexter, south park, the office, mad men, portlandia, saved by the bell, friends ...

books: dream brothers (the life and music of jeff & tim buckley), the celestine prophecy, vinyl junkies, invisible monsters, fight club, I drink for a reason (david cross), always looking up (michael j fox) ...

food: i'm pretty simple, but I try to stay on the healthy side of the spectrum. when I eat out, thai, mexican, and good sandwiches are favorites.
The six things I could never do without
friendship. music. memories. new knowledge. my sisters. and sadly, I would find it pretty difficult to live without internet access.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the past. the future. working on thinking more about the present.
On a typical Friday night I am
I always work on Friday, so I'm usually unwinding, but if there is a good show that's where I'll be.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I find life to be as scary as it is wonderful. Sometimes it scares me a lot.

Anecdotal: I wanted to be on The Real World since I started watching when I was about 10. I was a bit freaked out the day I realized I was too old to do so.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you feel compelled to do so, and if you won't be totally upset if I don't end up messaging back. This is a place with the opportunity to be discreet in how you interact, and you should be. I honestly appreciate anyone who takes the time to reach out, and the guts it may take for some people to do so. I'll message back if I feel it would be something more than just polite. If not, please don't take it personally, I just don't want to waste your time. Hope that comes across the way I intend it.