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31 M Portland, OR

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 18
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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The most defining aspect of my recent life is the experience I had spending a few years on the road as a tour manager for the band Kaddisfly. I've been to 47 states, met so many wonderful people, and created a wealth of memories and relationships I am grateful for. I now attend college classes searching for a more permanent direction while I enjoy my hobbies of photography, guitar, drums, and collecting vinyl records.

I can be very simple, I can be complex. I strive to be honest with all people at all times, while being sensitive to their personality and relationship to me. I cherish my good friends, of which I am thankful to have several.

I'm in a band for a the first time in far too long. Things are movin' along nicely. It's so much fun. Looking forward to recording an EP and playing shows this year.

I try not to waste my words. I'm often considered a quite person in the general public, but I'm just waiting for the ideal moment.

I'm nostalgic for the 80s and 90s.

a few blogs:

What I’m doing with my life
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School. Work. Enjoying music through the magic of vinyl records (not just because they are cool now, but because they just are the best). Taking photographs when I have the time. Working to improve myself in any way I can as I enter my 30s.

I think I'm going to start skateboarding again.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I don't consider myself an expert at any one thing. I'm proficient in a few things. Guitar, drums, singing (I will say I consider myself pretty good at harmonizing), taking pictures, listening and giving appropriate advice. I'm a humble person, not one to boast.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Seems like a trick question to me. I doubt the first thing someone notices about you is the thing they say to you. However, many people say I look like someone else.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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a dozen examples or less of each:

music: nick drake, jeff buckley, duncan sheik, deftones, far, glassjaw, silverchair, rogue wave, pinback, mos def, sigur rós, john coltrane, many more.

movies: vanilla sky, memento, anchorman, slc punk, eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, before sunrise/before sunset, garden state, i love you man, fight club, almost famous, back to the future, waking life ...

shows: six feet under, lost, entourage, freaks and geeks, undeclared, dexter, south park, the office, mad men, portlandia, saved by the bell, friends ...

books: dream brothers (the life and music of jeff & tim buckley), the celestine prophecy, vinyl junkies, invisible monsters, fight club, I drink for a reason (david cross), always looking up (michael j fox) ...

food: i'm pretty simple, but I try to stay on the healthy side of the spectrum. when I eat out, thai, mexican, and good sandwiches are favorites.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
friendship. music. memories. new knowledge. my sisters. and sadly, I would find it pretty difficult to live without internet access.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the past. the future. working on thinking more about the present.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I always work on Friday, so I'm usually unwinding, but if there is a good show that's where I'll be.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I find life to be as scary as it is wonderful. Sometimes it scares me a lot.

Anecdotal: I wanted to be on The Real World since I started watching when I was about 10. I was a bit freaked out the day I realized I was too old to do so.
You should message me if
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you feel compelled to do so, and if you won't be totally upset if I don't end up messaging back. This is a place with the opportunity to be discreet in how you interact, and you should be. I honestly appreciate anyone who takes the time to reach out, and the guts it may take for some people to do so. I'll message back if I feel it would be something more than just polite. If not, please don't take it personally, I just don't want to waste your time. Hope that comes across the way I intend it.