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41 Lewiston, ME Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:44pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and very serious about it
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Has kids
Dislikes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently), LISP (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Was reading an article that had this quote "An online profile, "is like reading the ingredients on a box of food and trying to imagine what it would taste like.""

At that point where I'm fed up with trying to fit in and doing what society or others think is right. Time to find my own path, yes I know it took me awhile. I realize lots of people figure that out in the teen years, but then some never figure it out, so I guess better late than never.

Oh you should know I am poly, you can find my wife nolongerblondie on here too, and my girlfriend moonstaff. And no I'm not on here for casual sex. Not my thing.

I am sensitive, open, and strong.

Some things I like to do include, riding my waverunner, riding my motorcycle, wakeboarding, wind surfing, fiddling with my bass guitar, and entertaining my kids by making stuffed animals talk to them.

FYI, I work in Billerica, MA and live in Lewiston, ME so I change my profile location every now and then. So I'm down in Billerica during the week.

I like to make desserts, cheesecake, pies, cookies, though I don't do that very often.

"Live for yourself, there's no one else more worth living for."
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've given it a fair shot, tried to live the traditional American dream, but when it doesn't lead to happiness it's time to rethink the dream.
I'm quite happy now, with two wonderful women who truly love me, and my work is interesting to me now that I am getting to learn some new things.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm bald.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'd like to find some new favorites, let me know what you suggest, but in the past I liked these things:

Ayn Rand novels, The Fountainhead, Atlas Shrugged, Anthem.
Tolkien, Orson Scott Card's Ender novels.
I don't take Rand to seriously so don't write me off due to her, seems like people have a strong reaction to her philosophy.
The God Delusion - Dawkins
And lately I've been obsessed with limericks.
Oh and Samuel Taylor Coleridge, The Rime of the Ancient Mariner, and of course Kubla Khan.

I like Indian, Italian, French, German, and Mexican food.

Firefly/Serenity - Nathan Fillion is so good.
NPH is hilarious, just saw Dr. Horrible the other night, good stuff.
MST3K - Robot roll call!
Have to add Secretary as I thought it was a wonderful love story, which some of my friends don't understand, but I guess they just don't get it. Also cause I keep seeing it in other peoples profiles and it reminds me everytime.
Like any good geek I like SciFi (!SyFy) Star Wars and Star Trek. (Yes I have been to a Star Trek convention, but that was over ten years ago, highlight was chatting with Majel Barrett)
Seems like a lot of folks mention Princess Bride, I guess it has universal appeal, I liked it.

I'm into prog rock, bands like Rush, Coheed and Cambria, Dream Theater, Blind Guardian, Symphony X, Tool, Queensryche, Nightwish, Mr. Bungle, Queen.
Also Megadeth, Korn, Live, Faith No More, Dragon Force, Disturbed, Alanis Morrisette, Pink, Barry Manilow. I liked Purple Rain, but don't really listen to any other albums from Prince. (Well that's not entirely true. I love Raspberry Beret and Little Red Corvette) I like Maroon5 too, seen them a couple times.
Dug out some old Concrete Blond, Bloodletting, forgot how good that was. And the original Bat Out of Hell is probably what got me into prog type music.

So this one has been haunting me of late:
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Never say never.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Do I have to be the type of person who thinks about one thing for extended periods of time? I mean I do think about things seriously, but it tends to be in spurts.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out somewhere, trying to socialize. I like meeting people, just hanging out and getting to know people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sometimes I'll play "life is a musical" with the kids and start singing everything instead of talking. I've even got my wife to join in with us a few times :) Just always found it so funny when they'd break into song in the middle of what seemed like a normal movie, thought real life could use that sometimes.
You should message me if
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If you are even thinking about it, just do it. What's the worst that could happen?

If I've visited your profile and not messaged you know that I do not message people who have "Must be single" in their "I'm looking for" since obviously I'm not who you are looking for, doesn't mean I didn't think you were interesting and/or beautiful.