I can be somewhat a contradiction at times because I'm a geek who doesn't play video games (much), I study physics but don't watch 'the big bang theory' and I'm physically lazy and yet I'm a work-out addict, I'm also a pacifist who's not afraid of a fight; I'm straight but have many gay friends; etc,. I’m also polyamorous and open and think marriage may soon be obsolete but that doesn't mean I don't want commitment and that's not a contradiction. I think one of the biggest travesties in our civilization has been the church attaching morality to sexuality. That said I’m a 'live and let live' atheist who’s equally taken aback by the belief system many of my fellow atheists still maintain and still live in denial of, as I am those who believe in god.
I’m annoyed by poor grammar and not as much by swearing unless it's a crutch or over-used mannerism.