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38 Oakland, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–47
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 20
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Unless someone can convince me to stay in the Bay Area, I'm buying a house in South Lake Tahoe in Feb.

I would like to meet someone whose ultimate goal would be to find a person to grow old and sit on a porch with (preferably with a shotgun and bottle of whiskey). I'm a rather spontaneous and optimistic person, who likes to not take life too seriously. Let’s turn off the TV, and go explore instead! I think people struggle to stereotype me, because I’m a little bit of everything. For example, my friends are mostly liberal and I’m an animal activist, but I love stuff like monster trucks and supporting our troops and law enforcement. Part creative artistic type, and part redneck. That gets to be tricky when trying to find a manly (non-hipster) gentleman, but that does not do stuff like hunt, go to the rodeo or get their dogs from breeders. So an assertive, adventurous, compassionate tall gentleman would be ideal for me (I’m 6’ – 6’1” in my heels). I’m used to dating meat eaters and fishers though, I just won’t partake in either. Maybe we can do something like get dressed in prom clothes and then go mudding in my truck! Yep, variety is the spice of life! Basically, I have all my sh*t together, as far as job, home, friends, mental & physical health. CA Bay Area native, who definitely loves city life, but grew up in a woodsy neighborhood, and a country girl at heart. My head is in the city, but my heart is in the country. Everything interests me, especially new experiences, yet lying in bed and watching a documentary with my two cats is a coveted act too . I have a cheesy sense of humor, but can also be dry and sarcastic. You would never find me in IKEA, I have no interest in current pop culture, and I gravitate towards everything vintage: "Not all the old is good, but all the new is bad" - Wallace Nutting. I hate all this new crap - where did all the charm go? Family and friends are a huge part of my life, but I know ZERO people in South Lake Tahoe, so I’m looking forward to making new friends too.

No drug users, smokers or people with STD's please. Dudes with short bland profiles or creepy bathroom or gym mirror selfies, probably won't get a response.

Let's take on the world together! :D
What I’m doing with my life
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Traveling and playing - life is good! "I can't promise you the world, but I can promise you this: I'll buy you tacos and touch your butt"
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being an optimist, being grateful, creativity, coming up with solutions, being able to determine when something is aesthetically off-balance and hap-hazard vegan cooking. Also, making the sound of a cat in heat.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably all the cat fur stuck to my clothes...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love all types of music! Love the Cure's early 80's dark stuff, Johnny Cash, Waylon Jennings, The Smiths, Dave Brubeck, Bauhaus, Les Paul & Mary Ford, :wumpscut:, Eartha Kitt, seeing live rockabilly shows, Siouxsie & the Banshees, Laura Viers, Haujobb , 50 Cent, Dead Can Dance, Pink Floyd, Tribe Called Quest, GBH, Patsey Cline, Dave Dudley, Simon Garfunkel, Skinny Puppy, Chopin, Ladytron, Bill Withers, Led Zeppelin, Dolly Parton, Bolt Thrower, Metallica, Lee Hazelwood, Buena Vista Social Club, Dean Martin ... oh the list goes on and on...

TV: Dexter, Homeland, American Experience, Ab Fab, Parks & Recreation, Twin Peaks, Northern Exposure, The Muppet Show

Movies: The River (1951), Harold & Maude, The Jerk, The Village, Sunset Blvd, God Grew Tired of Us, Wild Parrots of Telegraph Hill, Microcosmos

Books: The Little Prince, books on Victoriana and history, poetry
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Nine tings actually: Love, Monster trucks, hot sauce, animals, antiques, family, friends, my camera and nature
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Here are some of my interests instead: Animal rights, hiking, supporting our troops and law enforcement, museums, golf, the redwoods, NPR, camping, cemetery picnics, fighter jets, exploring, vintage houses, vintage fashion, big cities & small towns, history, road trips & travel, health and fitness, stimulating conversations, vintage cars, documentaries, decorating, cuddling, dive bars & theme bars, small towns and big cities
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Being social and spontaneous!
You should message me if
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You're tall and actually read my profile, and think we might click. I'm happy being single, so have no problem holding out for the real deal.

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