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26 San Jose, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 19–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 11
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm not your average guy. Haha sorry that's the first line on almost every page I look at and I find it hysterical. Ok, um, about me. First off, I hate writing a self summary lol. Second, I clicked on style guide thinking it would help me make this sound more cohesive. Instead it taught me that some people still say awesomesauce. I also just learned that awesomesauce doesn't get picked up by autocorrect so apparently that is somehow a real word.

Quick history lesson: I grew up in Norther California and moved to San Jose halfway through High School. Lived there for a few years and then enlisted in the Marine Corps. Did my 4 years, got out and just moved back to San Jose. I enjoy a lot of things, reading, movies, music, playing music, being outside, driving, shooting, my pets. Lots more stuff, get to know me and you'll find out more lol. I love animals, my family has a lot. A German shepard, two cats, a rabbit, 4 chickens, and a snake. People who know me would describe me as a conservative, an optimist, and a pessimist lol, outgoing, sarcastic, witty, and generally a good guy. Can't really think about what else to say about me, but i'm sure I'll add more later.

Already found something. OKcupid lists me as a little less kinky and way less scientific than most straight men my age. I find this hysterical.
What I’m doing with my life
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Now that I'm out, going back to school. Going for a degree in Psychology, ultimately want my Doctorate and to become a clinical psychologist. I spend most of my time reading, spending time with my family, working on my parents house, helping out my grandparents, or generally just hanging out being a bum lol.

I am now also training to be a massage therapist. It kind of happened on accident lol, but it's turning out to be really great.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Fixing things. Mechanical or house related things. And electronics to a small degree.

Learning. I'm always reading new and interesting things, searching things that spark my interest.

Filling out forms like this one. No, really, I am. Seriously though, I'm good at a lot of things. Ask me to fill out a box and tell people what they are though and my mind goes blank.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People say my eyes. And I qualify that people say it, not me. It sounds pretty conceited otherwise lol
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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OK, TV shows
The mentalist
Buffy and Angel
Downton abbey (I know, I know)
Burn notice

Any. I'll read anything. I'm currently reading meditations by Marcus Aurelius but recommend something to me :-)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My dog
My phone
The internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Crazy things that happen in life and the future.

Or, really random things. I can't even begin to explain how random. For instance, the saying "bought the farm." What the hell does that mean?! I mean I know the meaning behind the saying but where did it come from? If you know message me and let me know lol

Or things I think no one else thinks about. Like how side mirrors on cars look like little ears. So now, no matter how cool or badass you think a car looks, when you realize it has little ears on it, it doesn't look so cool or badass, it looks cute lol. I have forever changed your paradigm on cars. You're welcome.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Nothing. If it's private I'm certainly not telling strangers visiting my profile. You want to know something private about me get to know me.
You should message me if
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You actually took the time to read my profile. And my questions. And liked any part of it lol. Seriously, who visits someones profile and doesn't even say hi?

Or if you actually are interested in making new friends. Think about it. Does your profile say you're looking for new friends? How many messages have you ignored recently from seemingly normal people? If its more than a few, fix your profile.