I generally hold to the principle that THERE IS NO MASTER PLAN and everything is possibly spontaneous, one-time, and colorful in yet unseen ways, without your perspective there would be nothing (at least for you) and there is yet no way to prove that what your will experience in your life will necessarily conform to some absolute method that you can arbitrarily draw resources from without thinking, you DO possess the possibility to consider other options, don't you? how many options are there? The things we are most depressed about are those that WE DIDN'T TRULY (or otherwise) GRASP and that automatically means that it is usually a good idea to think about POTENTIAL TROUBLE without losing your comfort and flexibility to feel good. Failure (if that's a term you use) is in the implicit details. It may not always be that much of a trouble, but i think sloppiness is more of a harm than worth, usually.
I'm not afraid to take a step back even if I didn't plan it but i try to be aware of it.
Things apparently (to the senses and the rational mind, at least, as far as i know) magically unravel in REPEATING PATTERNS THAT CAN BE MEASURED quantitatively and how surprisingly I'm not naturally inclined to "feel" these patterns. Time is especially an isuue. Me and the people i have encountered are NOT INHERENTLY GOOD CONSIDERING IT. Nothing happens by chance. Heard about it? The odds against you might be high though.
Value, is a swell thing. I think the possibility to cherish something (don't take it for granted) is a true asset. I also think that it is best to love and give without expecting in return because it shows you have free will. I guess most of us like to think of ourselves as considerate.. There's almost no one I can't learn anything from.