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30 M Asheville, NC

My Details

Last Online
Jul 21
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
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My self-summary
I love fun and I love being serious and real also. I'm not too cool for anything and I'm better than no one. I enjoy collaboration, projects to do with other people, I love to see other people do well at the things that give them joy. I'm a romantic, I'm kind and try to be as honest as possible. I see the nuances of situations but hold strong values. I think about social justice a lot, I'm close with my mom and I have amazing friends. I play in a band, I write, sing and love the process of collaboration through the collective, taking ourselves both way too seriously and not seriously at all. I am often in the roles of facilitator or ally, advocating for others in crisis and I'm good at it. I'm an educator, an organizer. I love children. I love to go out to the movies. I love to run. I ride my bike a lot. I enjoy reading and I enjoy going out to read with friends. I drink a ridiculous amount of coffee on most days. Self care is really important to me. I love baths, bubble baths, with a book and a breeze coming through the window. I love chocolate. I eat meat. I'm into kundalini yoga. I'm a serious CrossFitter.
What I’m doing with my life
Committed to social justice, I put a lot of work into taking good care of my mental and physical health. I'm a really busy person, I work hard at a job that I'm passionate about but I also keep a lot of fun projects going at once. Of course I make time to be with friends and people I care about, that's very important, but I don't waste much time with things that aren't healthy or engaging. I'm very aware that life is short so I let my passion propel me, but I'm not inconsiderate or naive - I live intentionally.
I’m really good at
Cooking. My job. CrossFit. Making Lists. Drinking plenty of water. Drinking plenty of coffee. Handling crisis situations.
The first things people usually notice about me
My freckles, and also my glasses, if I'm wearing them? I smile a lot. I pay attention to people, I like for people to feel heard, so I listen because I also want to be heard. Don't you? Doesn't everybody? I'm generally a pretty positive person and I think it's what people notice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Currently reading Sunset Park by Paul Auster in public, Infinite Jest by David Foster Wallace in private, also studying Becoming A Supple Leopard by Kelly Starrett (a book on body mobility).

Angel Olsen, Iris Dement, The Antlers, Beach House, P.S. Eliot and Swearin' LPs are getting a lot of play on my record player lately.

On the headphones lately: The Pains Of Being Pure At Heart, Agalloch, Fall of Efrafa, Iron Chic, Against Me!, Swearin', Cold Cave, Hop Along Queen Ansleis, Orchid, White Lung, Stars - that's lately.

Also listening to podcasts: RISK!, This American Life (of course), Barbell Shrugged, & the Moth.

I like Wes Anderson films, documentaries, I think Richard Linklater is great, if you like the Before/After Sunrise/set/Midnight movies then I'm right there with you! I like a lot of movies you have to read while you watch. I enjoy romantic comedies, I'm not even fucking kidding. Adventure and Fantasy.
The six things I could never do without
water. sleep. food. books. people. coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Good food, drinking enough water, CrossFit, getting enough sleep, the people i care about, music, books, crisis intervention, beginners ballet or modern dance classes at 30...
On a typical Friday night I am
Friday, Monday, whatever.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a fairly private person, we all are in some way right? What's appropriate to share, when and how much? Of course its important to be considerate of other people, I take that seriously, so I won't be divulging any dirty secrets about myself that you aren't willing to hear. I'm willing to be vulnerable if that's the question, I'm strong like that...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you'd like to, i'd love to talk.