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37 • London, UK • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 24–34
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Feb 23
- 6′ 1″ (1.86m)
- Body type
- Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
- Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
- Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
- Likes dogs and likes cats
Born in Miami Beach to an American dad and an English mum, I grew up in the tropics, but always felt like that wasn't where I was meant to be. Finally moved to England full-time last summer to start a new chapter, possibly even an entirely new book.
Over the last 4 years, I've split my time living between Florida and England (mostly Newcastle) — now that I've left the U.S. I've set my sights on the South (a little outside London for now) as my first stop before I decide where to go next. I don't have a place I want to call 'home' yet, which is both terrifying and amazingly freeing, at least for a little while...
And if you find yourself wondering "Where do I recognise him from?" it's likely Instagram: @danrubin (so you know I'm not some weird stalker-with-a-camera :)
There's so much to figure out, so much to discover, so many places to see and things to do, and I'm trying to get better at doing more of all of it.
That said, I ought to list a few favourites, in no particular order: Good Omens, Neverwhere, Ender's Game, The Alchemist, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy; The Fifth Element, The Grand Budapest Hotel, Star Wars (IV–VI), Inception, The Princess Bride; Lost, Homeland, House of Cards, Battlestar Galactica, Archer; The Beatles, The Beach Boys (Heroes and Villians, seriously), The Hi-Lo's, Elton John, Billy Joel.
Also, why doesn't OKCupid include 'Theatre' in the question? Contributing to the cultural wasteland...
Food: I'm a sucker for an amazing Eggs Benedict (and pretty much any other egg-related breakfast). Finding good burgers outside of the US has also proven a nice challenge, though the London burger scene is doing a top job so far (Burger & Lobster = one of the best I've ever had).
Some of my favourite meals in the last 5 years have been in specific parts of the world, which may tell you more than the dishes themselves: Auckland, the Côte d'Azur, Zurich, Miami Beach.
Drinks: I'm (minorly) allergic to hops and sulphites, so don't invite me to a beer and wine bar unless you're ok with me having water...
Luckily, these allergies have lead me to discover alternate categories of fine alcohol beverages — namely, whiskey (Single Malt Scotch and bourbon, preferably) and Port (tawny, ruby, and white), as well as a healthy interest in spiced rum (can't grow up in the tropics without it).
If you're a whiskey drinker, we shall get along just fine; if not, I won't judge you for it :)
*Yes, I'm fully aware that the UK doesn't offer much in this category (same for water pressure, sadly). I've spent half of my time in England over the last 4 years before moving here, so I knew what I was getting myself into... it also means I'll likely live somewhere warmer, eventually.
Also: How the hell does OKC calculate friend/enemy percentages, and can we *actually* trust the results and/or the source data everyone provides?
...or if you just feel like it would pass the time. I'm flexible ;)
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